Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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does anyone see picking up drunk girls as too easy?

MascaraSnake

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I stopped for a stiff drink after class other day, and this extremely lubed-up girl was practically hanging off me when we talked. It was fun giving her backhanded compliments (she was eating it up), but when she had to get going I really didn't try all that hard to get her number because I felt kinda...well...weird about it.

Might have been a good thing too; the bartender told me that she stops in there a LOT on weeknights to get sh1tfaced. I don't know if it's just me, but I see picking up a drunk girl as too easy...drunk to me equals loose, and I've found that gaming a loose girl isn't particularly challenging or rewarding since their reputations tend to not be the best. Anyone else feel this way?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Effington

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I wouldn't ever say "too easy", but women are definitely more flirtacious and suggestive when they're tipsy; their inhibitions are lowered.

Back in the day I used to avoid the drunk girls because I thought I was taking advantage of them, but now realize that's just silly. Unless they are so clearly drunk that they're a danger to themselves, I wouldn't worry about it. People are typically more brutally honest when they're drunk...
 

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Yeah, and remember that girls are emotional creatures, so if you get her number now when she's drunk and try to call her the next day, she'll be like "Who the f is this?"
 

decades

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you have to weigh the easy lay against cleaning up the vomit on your bed. it's a real dilemma.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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guywhoneedshelp

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I kissed a drunk girllll

why do I do

these things I do to myself

I kissed a drunk girlllll

and I swear I could of been

with anybody else...

I dunno man but every time I get with a drunk chick I tend to take a long shower afterward, not feeling too accomplished. But hey, sometimes you're looking' for something other than your hand.
 
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