"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Does anyone else have a thing for...
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
ryannath said:
for Julie but Laurie's not so hot. But then again Soledad does it for me in a MILF kinda way... But in comparison, CNN has the most HBs just because of the sheer number of correspondants however CNN Headline News has the highest ratio of HB (hey, it's "Headline" News). Fox isn't bad but it's definitely not CNN.
RedPill
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
She's leaving FOX for CNN, I guess she's made it on the hot scale.Potbelly said:
Speaking of FOX, that Jane Skinner has a dirty mind, this woman just can't wait to go home and get some:Francisco d'Anconia said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MvGLgmj4lWk
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Yeahhhhhh, she was wet....DJDamage said:
Wow are you an idiot? Do you know anything? She already left FOX long ago and has been working for CNN for a while.Francisco d'Anconia said:
Dude, next time don't act like you know something when you don't because I can tell that you spent 2 secs googling it.:rockon:
WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Anyway, Fox, hands down. That chick on Red eye, damn she has some legs (i'm a leg guy). Then if by chance you are up on a saturday or sunday morning, turn to fox and friends... doesn't make any sense. it's like they grow them!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I knew that there was contract negotiations going on but I thought that CNN offered a better deal.Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
It's been all of a month, but I guess that seems like a lifetime if you're a juvenile. :rockon:Potbelly said:
you're arrogant ass still won't admit that you don't know anything. fess up to not knowing stuff about this from your previous posts. yeah a month, well that's not exactly currently like you thought it was now was it? I guess time goes slower for older people too
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Glad that I can keep you interested PB, you're the highlight of my day.Potbelly said: