I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
ryannath said:I think Fox News has hotter chicks than CNN. Julie Banderas is hot http://www.super-hair.net/banderas4.JPG , and so is Laurie Dhue, the blonde. http://www.adrants.com/images/dhue.jpg
She's leaving FOX for CNN, I guess she's made it on the hot scale.Potbelly said:2 words:
Kiran Chetry
Speaking of FOX, that Jane Skinner has a dirty mind, this woman just can't wait to go home and get some:Francisco d'Anconia said:She's leaving FOX for CNN, I guess she's made it on the hot scale.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yeahhhhhh, she was wet....DJDamage said:Speaking of FOX, that Jane Skinner has a dirty mind, this woman just can't wait to go home and get some:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MvGLgmj4lWk
Wow are you an idiot? Do you know anything? She already left FOX long ago and has been working for CNN for a while.Francisco d'Anconia said:She's leaving FOX for CNN, I guess she's made it on the hot scale.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I knew that there was contract negotiations going on but I thought that CNN offered a better deal.Deus ex Pianoforte said:Actually...I think she was fired, heh.
http://www.postchronicle.com/cgi-bin/artman/exec/view.cgi?archive=9&num=64883
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It's been all of a month, but I guess that seems like a lifetime if you're a juvenile. :rockon:Potbelly said:Wow are you an idiot? Do you know anything? She already left FOX long ago and has been working for CNN for a while.
Dude, next time don't act like you know something when you don't because I can tell that you spent 2 secs googling it.:rockon:
Glad that I can keep you interested PB, you're the highlight of my day.Potbelly said:you know what, I actually felt bad for going off on yuo, but not anymore.
you're arrogant ass still won't admit that you don't know anything. fess up to not knowing stuff about this from your previous posts. yeah a month, well that's not exactly currently like you thought it was now was it? I guess time goes slower for older people too