"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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Does anyone do an approach when a HB is talking on her cell?

qstorm501

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Oh should you say f*ck it and not approach. I passed up 2 approaches yesterday because both HBs were yappin on their cell. One was going in CVS as i was going out so I turned around and went back in lol...Sure enough when i made my move to approach she was talking on her phone being really animated. So i just walked passed her it threw me off...another i was taking a jog in a park and a HB was sitting down talking on her cell.. I wanted to approach then too but the talking made me hesitate.

Any good ideas on approaching when there talking .. Or should I just say screw it if their on the phone?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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ChrizZ

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qstorm501 said:
Oh should you say f*ck it and not approach. I passed up 2 approaches yesterday because both HBs were yappin on their cell. One was going in CVS as i was going out so I turned around and went back in lol...Sure enough when i made my move to approach she was talking on her phone being really animated. So i just walked passed her it threw me off...another i was taking a jog in a park and a HB was sitting down talking on her cell.. I wanted to approach then too but the talking made me hesitate.

Any good ideas on approaching when there talking .. Or should I just say screw it if their on the phone?
"hang up!"
 

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LOL ChrizZ... Have you actually tried that before and what was the reaction?
Yes I have. She hung up and then I said: "You shouldn't be talking on the phone. You should be talking to me!"
She was actually smiling and happy to talk to me.
 

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ChrizZ said:
Yes I have. She hung up and then I said: "You shouldn't be talking on the phone. You should be talking to me!"
She was actually smiling and happy to talk to me.

Thanks.. that sounds pretty slick..might have to try that one
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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afc no more

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ChrizZ said:
Yes I have. She hung up and then I said: "You shouldn't be talking on the phone. You should be talking to me!"
She was actually smiling and happy to talk to me.
does anyone actually believe this happened?
 

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Unless you got decent to good looks I clearly dont see that working.I mean confidence all the way yeah but if you look like a ****ed up guy then I dont care how good looking you are I just think your chances of success are lower.

For this I have two ways that I would go:

-If shes talking on her phone while not even seeing/noticing me,then I just do/pretend whatever it is in the moment until shes finished then make an approach that way.
-If she sees you and shes talking,unless you really feel that spark or connection by the eye contact,scrap it.
 

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I'd only do it if there was some clear indicator she wasn't trying to be on the phone. If it looks/seems important I'll leave her alone.
 

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619joe said:
Unless you got decent to good looks I clearly dont see that working.I mean confidence all the way yeah but if you look like a ****ed up guy then I dont care how good looking you are I just think your chances of success are lower.

For this I have two ways that I would go:

-If shes talking on her phone while not even seeing/noticing me,then I just do/pretend whatever it is in the moment until shes finished then make an approach that way.
-If she sees you and shes talking,unless you really feel that spark or connection by the eye contact,scrap it.
Well, I have to admit that I'm tall, good looking, dress in suits and I'm completely unaffected when it comes down to how she reacts.


Stop being scared of women fellas. She should be happy to talk to a real man and not some dude that circles her like a shark and waits until she hangs up.
 

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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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