"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Does anyone do an approach when a HB is talking on her cell?

qstorm501

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Oh should you say f*ck it and not approach. I passed up 2 approaches yesterday because both HBs were yappin on their cell. One was going in CVS as i was going out so I turned around and went back in lol...Sure enough when i made my move to approach she was talking on her phone being really animated. So i just walked passed her it threw me off...another i was taking a jog in a park and a HB was sitting down talking on her cell.. I wanted to approach then too but the talking made me hesitate.

Any good ideas on approaching when there talking .. Or should I just say screw it if their on the phone?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ChrizZ

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qstorm501 said:
Oh should you say f*ck it and not approach. I passed up 2 approaches yesterday because both HBs were yappin on their cell. One was going in CVS as i was going out so I turned around and went back in lol...Sure enough when i made my move to approach she was talking on her phone being really animated. So i just walked passed her it threw me off...another i was taking a jog in a park and a HB was sitting down talking on her cell.. I wanted to approach then too but the talking made me hesitate.

Any good ideas on approaching when there talking .. Or should I just say screw it if their on the phone?
"hang up!"
 

ChrizZ

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qstorm501 said:
LOL ChrizZ... Have you actually tried that before and what was the reaction?
Yes I have. She hung up and then I said: "You shouldn't be talking on the phone. You should be talking to me!"
She was actually smiling and happy to talk to me.
 

qstorm501

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ChrizZ said:
Yes I have. She hung up and then I said: "You shouldn't be talking on the phone. You should be talking to me!"
She was actually smiling and happy to talk to me.

Thanks.. that sounds pretty slick..might have to try that one
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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afc no more

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ChrizZ said:
Yes I have. She hung up and then I said: "You shouldn't be talking on the phone. You should be talking to me!"
She was actually smiling and happy to talk to me.
does anyone actually believe this happened?
 

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Unless you got decent to good looks I clearly dont see that working.I mean confidence all the way yeah but if you look like a ****ed up guy then I dont care how good looking you are I just think your chances of success are lower.

For this I have two ways that I would go:

-If shes talking on her phone while not even seeing/noticing me,then I just do/pretend whatever it is in the moment until shes finished then make an approach that way.
-If she sees you and shes talking,unless you really feel that spark or connection by the eye contact,scrap it.
 

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I'd only do it if there was some clear indicator she wasn't trying to be on the phone. If it looks/seems important I'll leave her alone.
 

ChrizZ

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619joe said:
Unless you got decent to good looks I clearly dont see that working.I mean confidence all the way yeah but if you look like a ****ed up guy then I dont care how good looking you are I just think your chances of success are lower.

For this I have two ways that I would go:

-If shes talking on her phone while not even seeing/noticing me,then I just do/pretend whatever it is in the moment until shes finished then make an approach that way.
-If she sees you and shes talking,unless you really feel that spark or connection by the eye contact,scrap it.
Well, I have to admit that I'm tall, good looking, dress in suits and I'm completely unaffected when it comes down to how she reacts.


Stop being scared of women fellas. She should be happy to talk to a real man and not some dude that circles her like a shark and waits until she hangs up.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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