"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Does a nice sense of style/good clothing really help?

Shivastorm_88

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I've always thought that it doesn't really make a difference as long as you're able to make a good face-to-face impression, but I've been talking to some female work colleagues lately and it seem that a good sense of style, good clothing and being well-groomed goes a long way.

Have you guys noticed a positive difference when you started actually taking more care of your appearance/what you wear?

Obviously it won't be a life-changing difference, I'm thinking more in the sense of attention it gets from women, checking you out, commenting and complimenting on what you wear, etc.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dutchmaster

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Grooming yourself definitely does. It shows girls you are willing to take the time to make yourself look better. I'm not too sure about clothes, but I'd assume the same. Personally I dress really nice but because I want to. I have a really good fashion sense and love all of that, so naturally I like to dress up as well. I've gotten lots of compliments from guys and girls on how I dress so I guess it certainly doesn't hurt me.
 

FairShake

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Yes absolutely.

I can't stand wearing a suit. I'm a street guy and a blue-collar guy and running around in a suit doesn't work for me. I feel stupid and uncomfortable. I wear suits at funerals and weddings only.

A high percentage of my one-night stand lays have come at weddings (not funerals you sickos!) so the suit must be adding to the overall impact of weddings.
 

Johnnyventana

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I think this is a no-brainer, um, duh!

Also, teeth are huge. Floss yo's! Ever go near some dude at work who has a mouth that smells like something died in it? Yeah, he doesn't floss.

My friend-girls, many times, have commented on how teeth are almost number one.
 
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