"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does a nice sense of style/good clothing really help?

Shivastorm_88

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I've always thought that it doesn't really make a difference as long as you're able to make a good face-to-face impression, but I've been talking to some female work colleagues lately and it seem that a good sense of style, good clothing and being well-groomed goes a long way.

Have you guys noticed a positive difference when you started actually taking more care of your appearance/what you wear?

Obviously it won't be a life-changing difference, I'm thinking more in the sense of attention it gets from women, checking you out, commenting and complimenting on what you wear, etc.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dutchmaster

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Grooming yourself definitely does. It shows girls you are willing to take the time to make yourself look better. I'm not too sure about clothes, but I'd assume the same. Personally I dress really nice but because I want to. I have a really good fashion sense and love all of that, so naturally I like to dress up as well. I've gotten lots of compliments from guys and girls on how I dress so I guess it certainly doesn't hurt me.
 

FairShake

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Yes absolutely.

I can't stand wearing a suit. I'm a street guy and a blue-collar guy and running around in a suit doesn't work for me. I feel stupid and uncomfortable. I wear suits at funerals and weddings only.

A high percentage of my one-night stand lays have come at weddings (not funerals you sickos!) so the suit must be adding to the overall impact of weddings.
 

Johnnyventana

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I think this is a no-brainer, um, duh!

Also, teeth are huge. Floss yo's! Ever go near some dude at work who has a mouth that smells like something died in it? Yeah, he doesn't floss.

My friend-girls, many times, have commented on how teeth are almost number one.
 
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