Docs
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1 to 10 scale is old-school, having a 1 to...8 isn't going to catch. Gotta go with the flow. Just be happy I edited the post for you titman. 
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Unfortunately your right mega, But seeing all these posts with "HB10" in the title is a pet hate with this place. Call me crazy but rating a chick unrealisticly that high seems like a sure fire way to the path of AFCness. If some dude honestly sees a chick in such a light then how will he ever have a chance of banging her? It seems counterproductive to what we SHOULD be thinking.Originally posted by DonMEgaHoss
Eye of the beholder just helps slightly this should be locked sorry doc but titman man... mainly your post are decent but this petty bickering is like battle of the internet geeks waiting for a reply instead of going out and doin' something...
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I know, no one can standardize beauty. It's pointed at those that call the HB 10's up. My scale is flawed, because I like how Cent's goes in some way.Originally Quoted By wavejams007
decent suggestions, but if peeps don't know where the search link is, even though it is in the same area as the link to the bible, then really they shouldn't be using this site cuz they don't know how to use its basic resources.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
No...I think there are women out there who would be perfect suited for me though. AKA my future WIFEOriginally posted by Centaurion
So you n00bs really think that there are chicks out there that are PERFECT in every sense?
hahahahahahahahahhahahahahahaha *wipes away tears*
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Nah I could still be as happy as a pig in sh!t (which I pretty much am more or less) and still flame retards, its really not that much of a big deal for me , I can even teach you if you like? Save your pop pyschology analysis for another time dude, I'll PM you if and when I get down in the dumps or something, deal?Originally posted by Bile
yes there are. Im 100% sure that there are not one single chick out there that hasn't got one flaw...but if your just judging by the looks, then yes.
I understand how you reason thought titman...but shouldn't you be out there railin some 9 instead of flaming every member here...If you have to flame everyone that says something your not "down" with, then obviously your not satisfied with your life...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
My idea sounds good... but, again, it's flawed.Originally posted by Docs
I know, no one can standardize beauty. It's pointed at those that call the HB 10's up. My scale is flawed, because I like how Cent's goes in some way.
And..the suggested examples for people..are just that, suggestioned.
As for adpating the scale to your own needs (Xtravaganza), that's a excellent Idea and I'll add it up there.
As for other suggestions, I've inputted them, but I'll lose my edit time soon, so suggest fast if you want to be credited.
Originally posted by Docs
As Requested..Pictures.
This is contraversial so this are IMO as examples. Dont' flame on how she should be a lever lower or higher, even I can't be perfect.
HB 9 - Jennifer Aniston - Heh..Close enough right?
Jessica Simpson - She's also someone a lot of people would nail.
HB 8 - Lindsey Lohan - She's not bad looking.
Googled. - Neither is this one....
HB 7 - Mary Kate - I put her here because she's gone downhill and looks like she's made up to have sex. She's alright though in some ways.
Ashlee Simpson - She's cute, I'll give her that. But she's not hot.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.