"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Do you think this former Stacy has hit The Wall?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
9-3enthusiast
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Men hold their value for MUCH longer than women.
She's 50, maybe 50+, There's no way that a guy of her age, who has his sh*t together will want to date her, he'll be dating women significantly younger. She'll either have to lower her standards quite a bit, or date somebody 60+, and that's if she can find a high value 60yr-old who isn't dating women in their 40s.
She's basically delusional
Hell, I'm 59 and routinely date down by 15 yrs, often more, (currently seeing a 45yo) - And I'm not exactly Brad Pitt, I just keep myself in decent condition and have my finances sorted.
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Joker is only partially correct. A smaller, segment of older men hold their value. The typical older man doesn't make enough money to see much in the way of a value increase. The typical 35+ year old will likely end up pursuing some women with baggage who is close to his own age because that's all that is available to him. Some of these men also end up simping for younger women on OnlyFans and Instagram.
Plenty of thirst men who are 55-65 will be interested in her. 50+ women are reported getting their inboxes flooded with messages on Match and OurTime. It's not uncommon today to be a 55 year old woman on Match who gets hundreds of messages and generates more interest than she did as a 20 year old in the late 1980s (the pre-internet era). The swipe apps are also starting to get more traction in the 45+ communities.
She's making that video because her standards are too high. She could have a boyfriend tomorrow if she had reasonable standards.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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50 is the ultimate pump and dump age. Assuming she only wants men who can get women...looks milfy enough to bang , but ofcourse no man who can pull will commit to her.
The only thing that makes it sad for such a woman is she's been gorgeous all her life..and suddenly boom, she's just "some kinda hot". Different worlds
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Want proof? Larsa Pippen is 49.
Michael Jordan Doesn't Approve of Son Dating Larsa Pippen
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It's also very difficult for a woman who is 45-50 to get pregnant. The U.S. Census Bureau measures female fertility among women 15-44. Lack of pregnancy potential helps in casual sex.
Paulina Porizkova had a different time adjusting to that as she aged and got divorced.
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Mandatory:Want proof? Larsa Pippen is 49.
Michael Jordan Doesn't Approve of Son Dating Larsa Pippen
https://www.tmz.com/2023/07/03/michael-jordan-son-marcus-jordan-larsa-pippen-not-approve/ Outside of the top 5-10% of men, most men don't have great options. Hey @SW15, I think you'd agree Marcus Jordan is a top 5-10% man. So what the heck is this guy doing going public with a divorcee with 3...
It's also very difficult for a woman who is 45-50 to get pregnant. The U.S. Census Bureau measures female fertility among women 15-44. Lack of pregnancy potential helps in casual sex.
Paulina Porizkova had a different time adjusting to that as she aged and got divorced.
This was a really hot woman. Exactly as I said, she gradually went from a 9 to a 6/7. She is still good looking by the way, and I geuss she'll also be high maintenance .
Larsen Pippen is yet another example. Interestingly enough you might as well conclude that these women know how to keep themselves goodlooking. Not a bad future for us DJ,S any way..