"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Do you think this former Stacy has hit The Wall?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Men hold their value for MUCH longer than women.
She's 50, maybe 50+, There's no way that a guy of her age, who has his sh*t together will want to date her, he'll be dating women significantly younger. She'll either have to lower her standards quite a bit, or date somebody 60+, and that's if she can find a high value 60yr-old who isn't dating women in their 40s.
She's basically delusional
Hell, I'm 59 and routinely date down by 15 yrs, often more, (currently seeing a 45yo) - And I'm not exactly Brad Pitt, I just keep myself in decent condition and have my finances sorted.
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Joker is only partially correct. A smaller, segment of older men hold their value. The typical older man doesn't make enough money to see much in the way of a value increase. The typical 35+ year old will likely end up pursuing some women with baggage who is close to his own age because that's all that is available to him. Some of these men also end up simping for younger women on OnlyFans and Instagram.
Plenty of thirst men who are 55-65 will be interested in her. 50+ women are reported getting their inboxes flooded with messages on Match and OurTime. It's not uncommon today to be a 55 year old woman on Match who gets hundreds of messages and generates more interest than she did as a 20 year old in the late 1980s (the pre-internet era). The swipe apps are also starting to get more traction in the 45+ communities.
She's making that video because her standards are too high. She could have a boyfriend tomorrow if she had reasonable standards.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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50 is the ultimate pump and dump age. Assuming she only wants men who can get women...looks milfy enough to bang , but ofcourse no man who can pull will commit to her.
The only thing that makes it sad for such a woman is she's been gorgeous all her life..and suddenly boom, she's just "some kinda hot". Different worlds
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Want proof? Larsa Pippen is 49.
Michael Jordan Doesn't Approve of Son Dating Larsa Pippen
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It's also very difficult for a woman who is 45-50 to get pregnant. The U.S. Census Bureau measures female fertility among women 15-44. Lack of pregnancy potential helps in casual sex.
Paulina Porizkova had a different time adjusting to that as she aged and got divorced.
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Mandatory:Want proof? Larsa Pippen is 49.
Michael Jordan Doesn't Approve of Son Dating Larsa Pippen
https://www.tmz.com/2023/07/03/michael-jordan-son-marcus-jordan-larsa-pippen-not-approve/ Outside of the top 5-10% of men, most men don't have great options. Hey @SW15, I think you'd agree Marcus Jordan is a top 5-10% man. So what the heck is this guy doing going public with a divorcee with 3...
It's also very difficult for a woman who is 45-50 to get pregnant. The U.S. Census Bureau measures female fertility among women 15-44. Lack of pregnancy potential helps in casual sex.
Paulina Porizkova had a different time adjusting to that as she aged and got divorced.
This was a really hot woman. Exactly as I said, she gradually went from a 9 to a 6/7. She is still good looking by the way, and I geuss she'll also be high maintenance .
Larsen Pippen is yet another example. Interestingly enough you might as well conclude that these women know how to keep themselves goodlooking. Not a bad future for us DJ,S any way..