"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you think the Peleton ad is so controversial because of the Fat Acceptance crowd not wanting men to give wives a gift that gets them into shape?

MatureDJ

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I finally got to see this "controversial" ad:


‘Nothing says “you need to drop a few pounds” like surprising your wife with a Peloton for Xmas’
Peloton exercise bike ad mocked as being 'sexist' and 'dystopian'
Some people complained it is sexist for a man to give his wife an exercise bike for Christmas, as it suggested he wanted her to lose weight.
my opinion: A man wanting his wife to lose weight? OH THE HUMANITY! :rolleyes:
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think its hilarious her goal is to lose 4 lbs in a year. She could literally do IF for a week or two to get those results with no exercise and probably a higher percentage of the weight lost would be pure fat.
 

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The people that are pissed are people that want everyone to sink to their level instead of bettering themselves and feminists that think expectations and standards are oppressive.

Body positivity is easier than doing the work to get results so that is their go to choice.

It gets them name recognition and people that are pissed weren’t going to buy one anyway.

The ad is a win as far as I’m concerned.
 

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I wouldn’t be surprised if the people who are angry are obese. I dated a woman years ago who was very much into fitness, similar body type to the woman in the Ad, she loved working out and was always looking to try something new, spinning classes, Pilates, gymnastics etc. I bought her a ten pack for Pilates classes for her birthday and she loved it. She didn’t get offended because she loved trying new things. The people who are complaining are the same people who never even stepped inside a gym. People talking about things they have no clue about, what else is new.
 

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The lefts insane and anyone who pays them any attention is lacking in judgment.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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