"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you think that sociopathic serial killers do it to get bad-boy cred with women?

MatureDJ

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I was reading about this killer

http://www.slate.com/blogs/crime/20...meticulous_serial_killer_of_modern_times.html

and it got me thinking that deep down, subconsciously perhaps, such killers - who are almost always male, and in the rare case of women, typically lesbian (i.e., Aileen Wuornos, aka "The Monster") - do it to get bad-boy cred with women. They figure that as a law-abiding man, they don't get any action, but that by being a merciless killer with no "good guy" conscience, women will respect them (and even have a penpal relationship while on death row!) It seems that a lot of women are indeed quite attracted to such men, as they are the baddest of the bad.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ah full caveman game eh? Too controversial for my liking, I'll wait a few more years when SHTF until I try it out. Field reports will follow.

But seriously, when betas and omegas snap it's always interesting, those poor fvckers are never dull when they reach that breaking point. I'm also predicting a WHOLE lot more snapping in the future. I can see these useless oxygen thieving bluepilled Sociologists/Psychologists doing cartwheels already. More ritalin more ritalin.
 

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they dont do it to get cred from anyone, they do it because that is who they are and that is their personality, they have their owned skewed values.
 

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Maybe for some of them, in a roundabout way. Like not specifically getting cred, just some twisted way of getting attention. Makes them feel powerful, which is what drives people to accumulate massive amounts of wealth.

I'd put them in the same class as politicians.
 

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a sociopath will do what he likes to do and that don't mean to get cred with woman he will do it mostly because he don't care about anyone other then himself and not all sociopaths kill people, some just use people for they own use, like marrying a older richer person just to get money from then, manipulating people to do they will, killing is just one thing they can do
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I believe there are 3 categories:

1) Sociopathic serial killer. Doesn't do it to get any bad boy cred or respect from women. Does it, like bethemen said, because of neural wiring and probably a bit of issues growing up.

2) Frustrated beta who can't get women so he goes full rampage (see: James Holmes). Even after the shooting he asks if women will come visit him in prison. Omega game?

3) Small subsect who do it for cred. I suspect this is a minority though, and not necessarily serial killers, probably more along the lines of gangbangers/cartel/etc.
 

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I doubt very much that many of these guys do this to get "bad boy cred" or to attract women. But John Hinckley Jr. shot Reagan to impress Jodie Foster, so who knows?

I do think there are some guys who "snap", partly because of their frustrations with women though. I don't find that hard to believe.
 

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EVERYTHING 99% of men do is to impress women

even if they don't realize it :up:
 

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Life in prison or the death penalty is a sure fire way to meet and impress a lot of women.
 

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And some women have relationships or marry these types!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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explains goundra well, minus the getting women part.
 

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serial killers kill because they are crazy.
most serial killers do not want anyone to know who they are until they snap and want attention from authorities and start leaving messed up clues like letters under fingernails and crap like that.

nevertheless, here is how conversations never go with serial killers:

sk "so , you come here often?"
chick "uhm i dunno sometimes"
sk "oh, so what do you do for a living?"
chick "uhm i work over at the nail salon. the one on the corner of fifth and third by the subway"
sk "oh cool"
chick "so what do you do for a living?"
sk "i work first shift over at the megalow mart... and sometimes i hack people up like dexter at night. so you wanna go get some coffee?"
**chick runs straight to the nearest police station**


yep.... i'm not sure what to think of that myself .
 

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I think it's kind of amusing the way so many people here think the way to become an alpha male and get laid on a regular basis is to kill a bunch of people and end up on death row. I mean yeah, some of them get letters from some crazy women, but there are surely easier ways.

Can you imagine going through all that, you're on death row, and then not one crazy b!tch sends you a letter wanting to marry you? You'd be all "Where's all my wimmen?" lol.
 
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