"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Do you think that sociopathic serial killers do it to get bad-boy cred with women?

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Messages
12,734
Reaction score
5,151
I was reading about this killer

http://www.slate.com/blogs/crime/20...meticulous_serial_killer_of_modern_times.html

and it got me thinking that deep down, subconsciously perhaps, such killers - who are almost always male, and in the rare case of women, typically lesbian (i.e., Aileen Wuornos, aka "The Monster") - do it to get bad-boy cred with women. They figure that as a law-abiding man, they don't get any action, but that by being a merciless killer with no "good guy" conscience, women will respect them (and even have a penpal relationship while on death row!) It seems that a lot of women are indeed quite attracted to such men, as they are the baddest of the bad.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

( . )( . )

Banned
Joined
Dec 31, 2002
Messages
4,873
Reaction score
177
Location
Cobra Kai dojo
Ah full caveman game eh? Too controversial for my liking, I'll wait a few more years when SHTF until I try it out. Field reports will follow.

But seriously, when betas and omegas snap it's always interesting, those poor fvckers are never dull when they reach that breaking point. I'm also predicting a WHOLE lot more snapping in the future. I can see these useless oxygen thieving bluepilled Sociologists/Psychologists doing cartwheels already. More ritalin more ritalin.
 

betheman

Banned
Joined
Nov 4, 2010
Messages
1,843
Reaction score
67
they dont do it to get cred from anyone, they do it because that is who they are and that is their personality, they have their owned skewed values.
 

taiyuu_otoko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2008
Messages
5,774
Reaction score
4,877
Location
象外
Maybe for some of them, in a roundabout way. Like not specifically getting cred, just some twisted way of getting attention. Makes them feel powerful, which is what drives people to accumulate massive amounts of wealth.

I'd put them in the same class as politicians.
 

Alvafe

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 26, 2012
Messages
3,360
Reaction score
1,594
Age
43
a sociopath will do what he likes to do and that don't mean to get cred with woman he will do it mostly because he don't care about anyone other then himself and not all sociopaths kill people, some just use people for they own use, like marrying a older richer person just to get money from then, manipulating people to do they will, killing is just one thing they can do
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

muscleman

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 1, 2007
Messages
1,093
Reaction score
49
I believe there are 3 categories:

1) Sociopathic serial killer. Doesn't do it to get any bad boy cred or respect from women. Does it, like bethemen said, because of neural wiring and probably a bit of issues growing up.

2) Frustrated beta who can't get women so he goes full rampage (see: James Holmes). Even after the shooting he asks if women will come visit him in prison. Omega game?

3) Small subsect who do it for cred. I suspect this is a minority though, and not necessarily serial killers, probably more along the lines of gangbangers/cartel/etc.
 

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,797
Reaction score
10,027
I doubt very much that many of these guys do this to get "bad boy cred" or to attract women. But John Hinckley Jr. shot Reagan to impress Jodie Foster, so who knows?

I do think there are some guys who "snap", partly because of their frustrations with women though. I don't find that hard to believe.
 

Burroughs

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 28, 2011
Messages
2,171
Reaction score
99
EVERYTHING 99% of men do is to impress women

even if they don't realize it :up:
 

SSBS

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 16, 2012
Messages
74
Reaction score
6
Life in prison or the death penalty is a sure fire way to meet and impress a lot of women.
 

The Duke

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2008
Messages
6,574
Reaction score
11,619
And some women have relationships or marry these types!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

BMX

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 12, 2004
Messages
1,477
Reaction score
408
Location
Everett
explains goundra well, minus the getting women part.
 

penkitten

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2001
Messages
8,255
Reaction score
235
Age
49
Location
at our house
serial killers kill because they are crazy.
most serial killers do not want anyone to know who they are until they snap and want attention from authorities and start leaving messed up clues like letters under fingernails and crap like that.

nevertheless, here is how conversations never go with serial killers:

sk "so , you come here often?"
chick "uhm i dunno sometimes"
sk "oh, so what do you do for a living?"
chick "uhm i work over at the nail salon. the one on the corner of fifth and third by the subway"
sk "oh cool"
chick "so what do you do for a living?"
sk "i work first shift over at the megalow mart... and sometimes i hack people up like dexter at night. so you wanna go get some coffee?"
**chick runs straight to the nearest police station**


yep.... i'm not sure what to think of that myself .
 

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,797
Reaction score
10,027
I think it's kind of amusing the way so many people here think the way to become an alpha male and get laid on a regular basis is to kill a bunch of people and end up on death row. I mean yeah, some of them get letters from some crazy women, but there are surely easier ways.

Can you imagine going through all that, you're on death row, and then not one crazy b!tch sends you a letter wanting to marry you? You'd be all "Where's all my wimmen?" lol.
 
Top