"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you think that sociopathic serial killers do it to get bad-boy cred with women?

MatureDJ

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I was reading about this killer

http://www.slate.com/blogs/crime/20...meticulous_serial_killer_of_modern_times.html

and it got me thinking that deep down, subconsciously perhaps, such killers - who are almost always male, and in the rare case of women, typically lesbian (i.e., Aileen Wuornos, aka "The Monster") - do it to get bad-boy cred with women. They figure that as a law-abiding man, they don't get any action, but that by being a merciless killer with no "good guy" conscience, women will respect them (and even have a penpal relationship while on death row!) It seems that a lot of women are indeed quite attracted to such men, as they are the baddest of the bad.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ah full caveman game eh? Too controversial for my liking, I'll wait a few more years when SHTF until I try it out. Field reports will follow.

But seriously, when betas and omegas snap it's always interesting, those poor fvckers are never dull when they reach that breaking point. I'm also predicting a WHOLE lot more snapping in the future. I can see these useless oxygen thieving bluepilled Sociologists/Psychologists doing cartwheels already. More ritalin more ritalin.
 

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they dont do it to get cred from anyone, they do it because that is who they are and that is their personality, they have their owned skewed values.
 

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Maybe for some of them, in a roundabout way. Like not specifically getting cred, just some twisted way of getting attention. Makes them feel powerful, which is what drives people to accumulate massive amounts of wealth.

I'd put them in the same class as politicians.
 

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a sociopath will do what he likes to do and that don't mean to get cred with woman he will do it mostly because he don't care about anyone other then himself and not all sociopaths kill people, some just use people for they own use, like marrying a older richer person just to get money from then, manipulating people to do they will, killing is just one thing they can do
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I believe there are 3 categories:

1) Sociopathic serial killer. Doesn't do it to get any bad boy cred or respect from women. Does it, like bethemen said, because of neural wiring and probably a bit of issues growing up.

2) Frustrated beta who can't get women so he goes full rampage (see: James Holmes). Even after the shooting he asks if women will come visit him in prison. Omega game?

3) Small subsect who do it for cred. I suspect this is a minority though, and not necessarily serial killers, probably more along the lines of gangbangers/cartel/etc.
 

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I doubt very much that many of these guys do this to get "bad boy cred" or to attract women. But John Hinckley Jr. shot Reagan to impress Jodie Foster, so who knows?

I do think there are some guys who "snap", partly because of their frustrations with women though. I don't find that hard to believe.
 

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EVERYTHING 99% of men do is to impress women

even if they don't realize it :up:
 

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Life in prison or the death penalty is a sure fire way to meet and impress a lot of women.
 

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And some women have relationships or marry these types!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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explains goundra well, minus the getting women part.
 

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serial killers kill because they are crazy.
most serial killers do not want anyone to know who they are until they snap and want attention from authorities and start leaving messed up clues like letters under fingernails and crap like that.

nevertheless, here is how conversations never go with serial killers:

sk "so , you come here often?"
chick "uhm i dunno sometimes"
sk "oh, so what do you do for a living?"
chick "uhm i work over at the nail salon. the one on the corner of fifth and third by the subway"
sk "oh cool"
chick "so what do you do for a living?"
sk "i work first shift over at the megalow mart... and sometimes i hack people up like dexter at night. so you wanna go get some coffee?"
**chick runs straight to the nearest police station**


yep.... i'm not sure what to think of that myself .
 

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I think it's kind of amusing the way so many people here think the way to become an alpha male and get laid on a regular basis is to kill a bunch of people and end up on death row. I mean yeah, some of them get letters from some crazy women, but there are surely easier ways.

Can you imagine going through all that, you're on death row, and then not one crazy b!tch sends you a letter wanting to marry you? You'd be all "Where's all my wimmen?" lol.
 
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