“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Do you think Seeking Arrangements has sucked out all the higher-tier gals from the dating pool, leaving the rest of the market deficient?

Spaz

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Quantity matters. Why is it in NYC so easy to get girls?
With ur current level, you'll be singing the same tunes abt NYC as you are now in ur current location.

It's never the location.

Even if I'm in a village of 50, I'll still get laid.

It always boils down to the man.

Any experienced man here would tell you the same.

Ur ability to attract women rises in tandem with ur sphere of influence.
 

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With ur current level, you'll be singing the same tunes abt NYC as you are now in ur current location.

It's never the location.

Even if I'm in a village of 50, I'll still get laid.

It always boils down to the man.

Any experienced man here would tell you the same.

Ur ability to attract women rises in tandem with ur sphere of influence.
I think he'd fail miserably in NYC. To add insult to injury, the ladies in metro NYC would not treat him kindly.
 

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@biggoal should go to the Philippines, plenty of pretty young things wanting a nice tall white boy to go home with.

get on interpals.net and search for girls there, nice a few up and take a holiday.
100% you will get action and maybe a wife
(hint: I use to use interpals to set up dates when I would travel, high bang ratio and you have girls waiting for you)

note: this site is a not dating, date site pretending to be for "language exchange", lots of ladies in the US too.
 

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The chick I'm meeting on Sunday is a software engineer so she makes more than me obviously. But I'll wear a nice Polo Shirt and jeans. The thing is she's looking for a LTR so this will be harder to crack.
"Nice"? Shes looking for a smouldering dude who makes her body feel something.
 

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@biggoal should go to the Philippines, plenty of pretty young things wanting a nice tall white boy to go home with.

get on interpals.net and search for girls there, nice a few up and take a holiday.
100% you will get action and maybe a wife
(hint: I use to use interpals to set up dates when I would travel, high bang ratio and you have girls waiting for you)

note: this site is a not dating, date site pretending to be for "language exchange", lots of ladies in the US too.
Not for him. He's around 5'7'' and 125 LBS.
 

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Not for him. He's around 5'7'' and 125 LBS.
lol he said he likes chicks 5'3 - 5'10
no way a 5'7 skinny kid is getting any chick over 5'6
realistic expectations lol... i thought he was like 6'3
 

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Always said about 5-9. Weight fluctuates between 117 and 127. Summer when I sweat a ton I tend to weigh less.
Jesus Christ...hit the 24 hour McDonald's and don't leave until you gain 40 lbs. No wonder why you can't get laid. What woman wants a guy she can manhandle??
 

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You should PM @Spaz, @Glassguy or @In2theGame to see if they will mentor you and take you under their wing. I'd add @Amante Silvestre, but I think he's done.
He cant reach me. I have him on ignore.

Doubt the others would waste their time. I'm all for helping dudes out but I wont waste a second of my time on the ones that keep being their beta self and argue with any solid advice. No thanks. That's why he is on ignore also.
 

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Jesus Christ...hit the 24 hour McDonald's and don't leave until you gain 40 lbs. No wonder why you can't get laid. What woman wants a guy she can manhandle??
Needs to be muscle or else it's belly fat if you put on 40lbs. The 49 year old teacher was a hot little petite woman. About 5-1 so she only came up to the bottom of my chin. I weigh more than her.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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With ur current level, you'll be singing the same tunes abt NYC as you are now in ur current location.

It's never the location.

Even if I'm in a village of 50, I'll still get laid.

It always boils down to the man.

Any experienced man here would tell you the same.

Ur ability to attract women rises in tandem with ur sphere of influence.
I agree. I do great in an area of about 40k people (30 mile radius).

If I hit Bumble and Tinder when I'm in a place like Columbus (900k people) I get tons of great matches and my phone notification from those OLD sites sound like Morse Code.

It's the man. But statistics are common sense. The more the population, the greater the amount of women that find you sexually attractive.

A man that can do it in my area will clean up in a large area. A man that cant do it in a large area is totally fvcked in a small area in terms of attracting many women.
 

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He cant reach me. I have him on ignore.

Doubt the others would waste their time. I'm all for helping dudes out but I wont waste a second of my time on the ones that keep being their beta self and argue with any solid advice. No thanks. That's why he is on ignore also.
Jesus says to help the less fortunate.

Jesus Christ...hit the 24 hour McDonald's and don't leave until you gain 40 lbs. No wonder why you can't get laid. What woman wants a guy she can manhandle??
LOL. Never thought a dude at 5'7'' could be 125LBS. Aaron Clarey is 5'7'' and is around 145LBS. True, a lady 5'4 or so could range from 110LBS - his weight and higher. He goes for the taller ladies, and they have 10+ LBS or more.
 

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Jesus says to help the less fortunate.



LOL. Never thought a dude at 5'7'' could be 125LBS. Aaron Clarey is 5'7'' and is around 145LBS. True, a lady 5'4 or so could range from 110LBS - his weight and higher. He goes for the taller ladies, and they have 10+ LBS or more.
I was 154 at one time and looked chunky because all my weight goes into the belly and upper legs.

Brad Marchand real height is only about 5-5, 5-6 but weights over 170 for example but mostly muscle
 

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I agree. I do great in an area of about 40k people (30 mile radius).

If I hit Bumble and Tinder when I'm in a place like Columbus (900k people) I get tons of great matches and my phone notification from those OLD sites sound like Morse Code.

It's the man. But statistics are common sense. The more the population, the greater the amount of women that find you sexually attractive.

A man that can do it in my area will clean up in a large area. A man that cant do it in a large area is totally fvcked in a small area in terms of attracting many women.
How many people are on there in your area of 40k? In my area larger than that within 25-30 miles you can go a few days without seeing anyone other than a couple land whales on there. Bumble my county for 4 days no one even on there. The average age of my city is 66.9 years old, 28k. Could that be a factor? I went 3 days on Match without anyone within a 25 mile radius other than 2 land whales but can look up near Tampa and see hundreds of women online.
 

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I was watching this from A33hole Consulting, and it got me interested:

I love cappie. Its evident that trillions of the student loan debt is being paid by sugar daddy's. It is hilarious that women are disgusting and needy. Reliant on Men and or daddy government.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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