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Do you think Seeking Arrangements has sucked out all the higher-tier gals from the dating pool, leaving the rest of the market deficient?

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I was watching this from A33hole Consulting, and it got me interested:

 

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No girl with self respect would be up for this sort of deal, and yes despite what a lot of people here think.

Not all women are evil and bad, good women do in fact exist. You just have to look in the right places and avoid online dating all together
 

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I watched it too. It just got me thinking.. Have ladies just come to the reality they are just a sexual climax device? That is what seeking arrangement is. A lady gets $$$ and dude get that a$$. It's amazing how far down we've gone as a society.
 

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I watched it too. It just got me thinking.. Have ladies just come to the reality they are just a sexual climax device? That is what seeking arrangement is. A lady gets $$$ and dude get that a$$. It's amazing how far down we've gone as a society.

You have the looks and other guys have the money. Each does what works for them.
 

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You have the looks and other guys have the money. Each does what works for them.
Just got to find a way to increase your income.

As I said, if you have at least some money buy a nice car and a nice watch and some nice clothes. Only difference is your bank account is a couple zeros shorter than the rich guys but otherwise you look the same and have the same clothes and car. Just be fake. Women are fake anyway.
 

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Just got to find a way to increase your income.

As I said, if you have at least some money buy a nice car and a nice watch and some nice clothes. Only difference is your bank account is a couple zeros shorter than the rich guys but otherwise you look the same and have the same clothes and car. Just be fake. Women are fake anyway.
Ehhh, Mr. Beta Bucks... What are we going to do with you and your antics?
 

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Ehhh, Mr. Beta Bucks... What are we going to do with you and your antics?
The chick I'm meeting on Sunday is a software engineer so she makes more than me obviously. But I'll wear a nice Polo Shirt and jeans. The thing is she's looking for a LTR so this will be harder to crack.
 

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Yea, I'm the sh it, but doesn't mean you couldn't be too. Need to work on your self esteem dude. You're better than that.
If I'm worried about demonic attacks from prostitutes since I had my own personal demonic 9/11 attack in 2014 then I doubt I'm in the "pay for play" category or would use a site like that.
 

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Just got to find a way to increase your income.

As I said, if you have at least some money buy a nice car and a nice watch and some nice clothes. Only difference is your bank account is a couple zeros shorter than the rich guys but otherwise you look the same and have the same clothes and car. Just be fake. Women are fake anyway.
I have a nice car, don't wear a watch and wear good business clothes. I don't think a watch would make a difference.
 

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The chick I'm meeting on Sunday is a software engineer so she makes more than me obviously. But I'll wear a nice Polo Shirt and jeans. The thing is she's looking for a LTR so this will be harder to crack.
Right now, she's going to be a stretch for you. You push them away with the constant texting and way you text. Those DMs were cringe worthy. Need to back off and chill dude. You should PM @Spaz, @Glassguy or @In2theGame to see if they will mentor you and take you under their wing. I'd add @Amante Silvestre, but I think he's done.

If I'm worried about demonic attacks from prostitutes since I had my own personal demonic 9/11 attack in 2014 then I doubt I'm in the "pay for play" category or would use a site like that.
I think you'll be okay and the demons. Take baby steps dude.

I mean if it was something like a Brietling or Rolex.
Do you have either? If no, stop recommending them. A lady will not f uck you because of your watch; unless she's a gold digger. You do not have this problem. Dress cool, yes. A decent car may be important; but not necessary in NYC/Chicago, Miami, San Diego, etc.
 

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I don't understand what the deal is with being a sugar daddy. If you are going to use prostitutes it's cheaper to use escorts and instead of being locked into one chick you can bang different chicks. Just like the guy that was here a while back who was a online sugar daddy or the guys into the cam girls I just don't understand what some guys are thinking now a days. By the way @biggoal you don't understand how this works,I drive a Kia Optima which is the best car I have had and don't wear a watch, on top of that my regular way to dress is boots , jeans, and a T shirt of any rock band that I like and somehow this works for me. Dude you need to get out of your house and socialize yourself. You recently bought a home gym, what you should have done is get a gym membership so you can get out of your house and deal with real people in the real world. And stop complaining about living in Floriduh, there are plenty of guys living in Floriduh getting laid left and right.
 

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I don't understand what the deal is with being a sugar daddy. If you are going to use prostitutes it's cheaper to use escorts and instead of being locked into one chick you can bang different chicks. Just like the guy that was here a while back who was a online sugar daddy or the guys into the cam girls I just don't understand what some guys are thinking now a days. By the way @biggoal you don't understand how this works,I drive a Kia Optima which is the best car I have had and don't wear a watch, on top of that my regular way to dress is boots , jeans, and a T shirt of any rock band that I like and somehow this works for me. Dude you need to get out of your house and socialize yourself. You recently bought a home gym, what you should have done is get a gym membership so you can get out of your house and deal with real people in the real world. And stop complaining about living in Floriduh, there are plenty of guys living in Floriduh getting laid left and right.
He lives in the part where they inbreed due to lack of choice and options.
 

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Right now, she's going to be a stretch for you. You push them away with the constant texting and way you text. Those DMs were cringe worthy. Need to back off and chill dude. You should PM @Spaz, @Glassguy or @In2theGame to see if they will mentor you and take you under their wing. I'd add @Amante Silvestre, but I think he's done.



I think you'll be okay and the demons. Take baby steps dude.



Do you have either? If no, stop recommending them. A lady will not f uck you because of your watch; unless she's a gold digger. You do not have this problem. Dress cool, yes. A decent car may be important; but not necessary in NYC/Chicago, Miami, San Diego, etc.
The current one I'm not texting with much. Maybe just a couple messages a day just to see how each other is doing and like today to set the location to meet up. Some women text your eyeballs off though. Like that HB 9.5 over the summer who drove 60 miles to see me would text my eyeballs off until we met. To the point it was annoying me. But she was HB 9.5 so I put up with it.

Also it seems texting too much can lead to ghosting too if you end up giving up too much information and she disqualifies you before even meeting.
 

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I don't understand what the deal is with being a sugar daddy. If you are going to use prostitutes it's cheaper to use escorts and instead of being locked into one chick you can bang different chicks. Just like the guy that was here a while back who was a online sugar daddy or the guys into the cam girls I just don't understand what some guys are thinking now a days. By the way @biggoal you don't understand how this works,I drive a Kia Optima which is the best car I have had and don't wear a watch, on top of that my regular way to dress is boots , jeans, and a T shirt of any rock band that I like and somehow this works for me. Dude you need to get out of your house and socialize yourself. You recently bought a home gym, what you should have done is get a gym membership so you can get out of your house and deal with real people in the real world. And stop complaining about living in Floriduh, there are plenty of guys living in Floriduh getting laid left and right.
I live in an old persons town average age is 66. The Y closes at 8pm in the summer. A woman down here, at least our ages would think you're a joke driving a Kia and don't have any money. Women dig for gold down here dude.
 

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@biggoal if that area is that bad just move, also younger women care less about money than older women. I live in the Miami , Fort Lauderdale area there are guys here driving Ferraris and benteys and somehow you think the competition where you live is harder?
 

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@biggoal if that area is that bad just move, also younger women care less about money than older women. I live in the Miami , Fort Lauderdale area there are guys here driving Ferraris and benteys and somehow you think the competition where you live is harder?
Yea, I live on the West coast, south of Tampa. OLD unless you look 50 miles north of me is a desert. At least you have a higher quantity of women down there. Around here go on Tinder, match, Etc. and see limited selection and you have like 20 guys to 1. Bumble for example is a waste of money paying for here. My county can go a few days without even seeing a woman on it.

My county and the county bordering it to the north is the oldest average age in the state of FL. Median age is 55 years!

The demographics in my region is total opposite of where you live.
 

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lol @ quantity
I live in a country with less than 5mil people, less than 750,000 in the capital.

Stop with the excuses @biggoal
 

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lol @ quantity
I live in a country with less than 5mil people, less than 750,000 in the capital.

Stop with the excuses @biggoal
Yet you get to bang women all over the World! I've only lived in two states my whole life!

And the country you're from is almost entirely white and full of amazing looking women. I bet a lot less land whales than the US.

Quantity matters. Why is it in NYC so easy to get girls?
 
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