You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I swear, I get a new friend invite every other day, but only one in 20 of them isn't whale-bait.Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
No because 95% of all girls are insucure and prob wont add to itFrancisco d'Anconia said:
Yeah that's what I'm doing now. I just get this constant stream of oinkers trying to holler at me. Every time I get a message from one, I just want to send them something back that says, "J00 fat. Go 'way."Bonhomme said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
If chicks look at your photo and think "my god, he's HOT," then this is cool. If you're an average-looking guy though and have THAT in your profile, they'll find it to be exceedingly lame. Also, get rid of the shrek / fat chick reference. It makes you look like someone with low standards. High-status guys have DOZENS of 'disqualifying factors' and if you list just one and particularly that one, what that communicates is: "i'm not too picky, as long as they're not obese or something...". I don't mean to sound critical, but that's just what chicks will think when they see that stuffShezz said:
If you want something cool to put in under "what i look for in a woman," try "uniqueness" or "passion" or something along those lines that'll make a girl wonder "wait, do *I* have this? I wonder if he thinks i do!" For occupations, if you wanna do something playful, try Taco Bell VP of Burrito Inspection, Lemonade Stand CEO (this is what i'm using haha), Male Escort (105% off today!), etc. Even though they're stuffed with fluff?Vulpine said:
Yeah, but give me fit and insecure over fat and insecure anyday!Tomatoes said:No because 95% of all girls are insucure and prob wont add to it
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Dude, I've heard that dogs will worship anything too as long as its covered in peanut butter; what's the difference?Driven2Succeed said:
Do a field test. Make the most oulandish profile you can like you are the Pickiest ******* in the world. See how many replies you get over the next few days. Then put up your old profile and see how many you get. Then compare.squirrels said:...on my MySpace profile would deter the hot ones from trying to talk to me, because I seem "shallow" or "mean"?
It's already being done in another thread and the replies are being posted.Call_Me_Daddy said:
Where?Francisco d'Anconia said:
How so?Analytic said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.