Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
But that's the problem. If he thinks "dirtbag" after reading that, then a lot of women are going to think the same. Therefore he stands to blow his chance with lots of women all because of wording.( . )( . ) said:So he's a " dirtbag " for DARING to have HIS own standards and a lack of descriptive words to give it a P.C sugar coating for you.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Search the forum for a post by Rollo T. talking about a personal ad.Call_Me_Daddy said:Where?
Like all low status males you worry too much about what a b!tch thinks of you. Also men and women think differently.The Truth said:But that's the problem. If he thinks "dirtbag" after reading that, then a lot of women are going to think the same. Therefore he stands to blow his chance with lots of women all because of wording.
That "P.C sugar coating" has its merits.
You mean the one where he read a chick's ad and redid it based on his preferences?Francisco d'Anconia said:Search the forum for a post by Rollo T. talking about a personal ad.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You guys don't get it. Most women have a concern with their weight in some way or another, no matter their size. Although he'll offend the fatties, he's going to look like an @ss to the other women. They're going to wonder what he'd say about them if they gained an extra 5 pounds.Ol'BlueEyes said:I don't see why not. I've seen the typical girl-on-MySpace pages, and offending a few fat girls is the least of your concerns.
Exactly.Although he'll offend the fatties, he's going to look like an @ss to the other women