Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I swear, I get a new friend invite every other day, but only one in 20 of them isn't whale-bait.Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
No because 95% of all girls are insucure and prob wont add to itFrancisco d'Anconia said:
Yeah that's what I'm doing now. I just get this constant stream of oinkers trying to holler at me. Every time I get a message from one, I just want to send them something back that says, "J00 fat. Go 'way."Bonhomme said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
If chicks look at your photo and think "my god, he's HOT," then this is cool. If you're an average-looking guy though and have THAT in your profile, they'll find it to be exceedingly lame. Also, get rid of the shrek / fat chick reference. It makes you look like someone with low standards. High-status guys have DOZENS of 'disqualifying factors' and if you list just one and particularly that one, what that communicates is: "i'm not too picky, as long as they're not obese or something...". I don't mean to sound critical, but that's just what chicks will think when they see that stuffShezz said:
If you want something cool to put in under "what i look for in a woman," try "uniqueness" or "passion" or something along those lines that'll make a girl wonder "wait, do *I* have this? I wonder if he thinks i do!" For occupations, if you wanna do something playful, try Taco Bell VP of Burrito Inspection, Lemonade Stand CEO (this is what i'm using haha), Male Escort (105% off today!), etc. Even though they're stuffed with fluff?Vulpine said:
Yeah, but give me fit and insecure over fat and insecure anyday!Tomatoes said:No because 95% of all girls are insucure and prob wont add to it
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Dude, I've heard that dogs will worship anything too as long as its covered in peanut butter; what's the difference?Driven2Succeed said:
Do a field test. Make the most oulandish profile you can like you are the Pickiest ******* in the world. See how many replies you get over the next few days. Then put up your old profile and see how many you get. Then compare.squirrels said:...on my MySpace profile would deter the hot ones from trying to talk to me, because I seem "shallow" or "mean"?
It's already being done in another thread and the replies are being posted.Call_Me_Daddy said:
Where?Francisco d'Anconia said:
How so?Analytic said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.