"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you think Philosophers get laid?

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If a guy is so involved in his mind with the "bigger picture", do you think he could take a time out and be able to please a woman?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think people who get the "bigger picture" realize that the point and pleasure of being on this earth is to experience the "Small Pictures" one picture at a time... how is that for philosophy? :)
 

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"Give me ten minutes to talk away my ugly face and I will bed the Queen of France!" -Voltaire. I think they got laid. I'm sure Descartes' original line was, "I don't doubt I can get laid, therefore I can think about other s**t, therefore I am." Of course he had to shorten it :D.
 

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I get laid all the time.

Heh,..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Create Reality said:
If a guy is so involved in his mind with the "bigger picture", do you think he could take a time out and be able to please a woman?
The true DJ Prophet knows women are there to please him.
 

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If a guy is so involved in his mind with the "bigger picture", do you think he could take a time out and be able to please a woman?
Nope.

Not unless he had some experience with women before becoming so involved with philosophy that he thinks about it all day every day. But even then, I don't think he'd please one enough to keep her.

I really don't where the hell this idea (that I have read quite a few times) comes from that woman are fascinated by deep thinkers. Maybe deep thinkers with deep pockets, but then it's not really the thinking that does it.

Deep thinkers are typically deeply non-sexual and are so engrossed in their subject matter that what they say flies over the top of chicks' heads, despite it sounding momentarily impressive, or else it just plain bores them from the start.

Maybe if you're at a level where your status precedes you (like Voltaire), chicks will dig you. But again, it's your status they'll be digging, not your thoughts -- or your thoughts, but only to the extent that they impress other people present.
 

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Nope.

Not unless he had some experience with women before becoming so involved with philosophy that he thinks about it all day every day. But even then, I don't think he'd please one enough to keep her.

I really don't where the hell this idea (that I have read quite a few times) comes from that woman are fascinated by deep thinkers. Maybe deep thinkers with deep pockets, but then it's not really the thinking that does it.

Deep thinkers are typically deeply non-sexual and are so engrossed in their subject matter that what they say flies over the top of chicks' heads, despite it sounding momentarily impressive, or else it just plain bores them from the start.

Maybe if you're at a level where your status precedes you (like Voltaire), chicks will dig you. But again, it's your status they'll be digging, not your thoughts -- or your thoughts, but only to the extent that they impress other people present.
This is kinda what I'm thinking too. A guy who generally tries to have a deep conversation with a woman isn't talking for the same reasons as the girl. She can just smile and nod but at the end of the day most woman don't even give a crap I suppose. I think if your philosophy hasn't wooed anyone or gained you any status, it's sort of a lost cause.
 
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for existentialists, what is the meaning of getting laid?
Pleasure, acceptance by others and OFFSPRING! Everything is based around sex, why do you need a job that gets you MONEY? So you can get a car, house and food. Which is all needed for having kids and a family.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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cant think of a user name said:
for existentialists, what is the meaning of getting laid?
:crackup: :up::crackup:
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
:crackup: :up::crackup:
Glad someone read my post :D.

PeterNorthisawesome said:
Pleasure, acceptance by others and OFFSPRING! Everything is based around sex, why do you need a job that gets you MONEY? So you can get a car, house and food. Which is all needed for having kids and a family.
Hey man, I appreciate you explaining that but I think you skimmed over my post a little too quick. Keyword: existentialists.
 

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I actually have a BA in Philosophy. It doesn't really get you laid. Getting laid and philosophy don't really have too much in common, it turns out. Philosophy is complicated. Getting laid is pretty simple.

It's really annoying when someone learns I have a degree in philosophy, and they want to have an argument about an idea. (it's even worse when they want to argue about an area of philosophy I know really well, and I have to use every ounce of my strength to keep from destroying their argument. Because making people feel stupid isn't going to make you any friends).

No offense to those of you who haven't really studied formal logic, but most people who haven't studied philosophy are TERRIBLE at arguing well. Plenty of really intelligent people simply never learned how to form a good, well thought out argument. So if a girl tries to have a deep conversation with me I usually just nod and agree because her argument is riddled with holes and i'm more concerned about getting laid than winning some stupid argument.
 

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Newton said on his deathbead that his proudest accomplishment in his life was that he died a virgin, so probably not.
 

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Im currently midway through a BA in philosophy, an I dont do too badly for myself. I agree with The Forms- philosophy is a really handy tool for life, and contributes massively towards forming coherent discussions and arguments. I also agree that you do need to be able to turn the philosophy on and off though-as far as I have discovered, girls don't find people being pedantic all that attractive!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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CrunchyNut said:
Im currently midway through a BA in philosophy, an I dont do too badly for myself. I agree with The Forms- philosophy is a really handy tool for life, and contributes massively towards forming coherent discussions and arguments. I also agree that you do need to be able to turn the philosophy on and off though-as far as I have discovered, girls don't find people being pedantic all that attractive!
ain't that the truth. If you're in philosophy mode all the time you'll do nothing but annoy people.

To the OP, very few philosophers nowadays live the way you seem to have in your mind how a philosopher lives. Yea, Kierkegaard dumped his fiance because he thought that she would do nothing but get in the way of him following his passion. There are lots of tales of the old school guys doing crazy stuff (I think I heard that Descartes was a pimp. I'm SURE Sartre was a player, as with a lot of the other existentialists). But very few guys do that extremem stuff nowadays. Most philosophers are either old men who sit around being old all day, or they are young guys who actually tend to get a lot of tail (turns out philosophers are good with words. They know what to say to the ladies).
 
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If I am assuming correctly, you are asking if chicks are into guys who know a lot of philosophy. The answer is yes - but you have to know your audience. If that's what you are going for, pick up chicks at coffee shops and not bars.
 
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yes they do, but you have to know your audience, you have to pick up chicks at places like coffee shops and not bars or night clubs.
 

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yes they do, but you have to know your audience, you have to pick up chicks at places like coffee shops and not bars or night clubs.
Why coffee shops and not bars, what about hospital car parks or theme parks or at the beach. :crazy:
 

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So many huuuge generalizations about philosophy going on here...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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