"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Do you think Philosophers get laid?

Bonhomme

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If you get laid in the woods and nobody hears you, did you still get laid?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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CrunchyNut

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Or just a deaf chick?
 

Bonhomme

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:rolleyes: And I thought the education system was merely bad these days...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well, as an actual philosopher (Master's, going on for a Ph.D.), it seems to me to depend on what branch of philosophy you're interested.

The existentialists, the social philosophers, and the political philosophers tend to do pretty well for themselves when it comes to women.

The metaphysicians, the epistemologists, and the logicians don't seem to do that well for themselves.

I don't think this distinction has to do with the type of philosophy they study... rather, I think that those with more social personalities are drawn to the more social types of philosophy. Similarly, I think that AFCs are drawn to the more abstract reaches of philosophy. They aren't social to begin with, so they don't see as much of a need to study the more social branches.
 
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