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Master Don Juan
If a guy is so involved in his mind with the "bigger picture", do you think he could take a time out and be able to please a woman?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
The true DJ Prophet knows women are there to please him.Create Reality said:If a guy is so involved in his mind with the "bigger picture", do you think he could take a time out and be able to please a woman?
Nope.If a guy is so involved in his mind with the "bigger picture", do you think he could take a time out and be able to please a woman?
This is kinda what I'm thinking too. A guy who generally tries to have a deep conversation with a woman isn't talking for the same reasons as the girl. She can just smile and nod but at the end of the day most woman don't even give a crap I suppose. I think if your philosophy hasn't wooed anyone or gained you any status, it's sort of a lost cause.danielzxc said:Nope.
Not unless he had some experience with women before becoming so involved with philosophy that he thinks about it all day every day. But even then, I don't think he'd please one enough to keep her.
I really don't where the hell this idea (that I have read quite a few times) comes from that woman are fascinated by deep thinkers. Maybe deep thinkers with deep pockets, but then it's not really the thinking that does it.
Deep thinkers are typically deeply non-sexual and are so engrossed in their subject matter that what they say flies over the top of chicks' heads, despite it sounding momentarily impressive, or else it just plain bores them from the start.
Maybe if you're at a level where your status precedes you (like Voltaire), chicks will dig you. But again, it's your status they'll be digging, not your thoughts -- or your thoughts, but only to the extent that they impress other people present.
Pleasure, acceptance by others and OFFSPRING! Everything is based around sex, why do you need a job that gets you MONEY? So you can get a car, house and food. Which is all needed for having kids and a family.cant think of a user name said:for existentialists, what is the meaning of getting laid?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
:crackup:cant think of a user name said:for existentialists, what is the meaning of getting laid?
Glad someone read my postFrancisco d'Anconia said::crackup::crackup:
Hey man, I appreciate you explaining that but I think you skimmed over my post a little too quick. Keyword: existentialists.PeterNorthisawesome said:Pleasure, acceptance by others and OFFSPRING! Everything is based around sex, why do you need a job that gets you MONEY? So you can get a car, house and food. Which is all needed for having kids and a family.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
ain't that the truth. If you're in philosophy mode all the time you'll do nothing but annoy people.CrunchyNut said:Im currently midway through a BA in philosophy, an I dont do too badly for myself. I agree with The Forms- philosophy is a really handy tool for life, and contributes massively towards forming coherent discussions and arguments. I also agree that you do need to be able to turn the philosophy on and off though-as far as I have discovered, girls don't find people being pedantic all that attractive!
Why coffee shops and not bars, what about hospital car parks or theme parks or at the beach. :crazy:Infected Mushroom said:yes they do, but you have to know your audience, you have to pick up chicks at places like coffee shops and not bars or night clubs.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.