"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you think men that have a fetish for stretch marks are really just saying "I can only date single mommies, so I better like it"?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://breastandbra.com/stretch-mark-fetish-attraction/
It was a regular school day and it was in the afternoon. I was going about my business as usual when I saw “Sarah” trying to place a box up high on a top shelf. She was on her tip toes stretching as hard as she could. She placed the box and started to de-stretch for lack of a better term when her shirt became snagged. As she came down off her tip toes her shirt was pulled up about eight inches exposing her side and stomach to me. I only was able to catch a glimpse of her tummy but what I saw was stunningly gorgeous.
Sarah’s stomach was covered in stretch marks. They wrapped around her torso and extended to her sides with great beauty. Her tummy was a bit loose and flabby with post pregnancy baby fat. I marveled at her beautiful reddish and silvery colored stretch marks that adorned her body. I probably only saw her mid section for 2 to 3 seconds but it was just enough for me to realize how beautiful her stretch marks were. This is when I realized I had a “stretch mark fetish.”
my opinion: This reason for this "fetish" is the same as that for BBW, except that they abhor fat chicks, so they don't go down that route. As for myself, it's a big turnoff, although since while spooning I don't have to look at such marks, I think I could handle it if I were the one that caused the stretch marks (thankfully the buttock area can mask supine undesirability, unless there is cellulite there :eek:).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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R.U.G.

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://breastandbra.com/stretch-mark-fetish-attraction/




my opinion: This reason for this "fetish" is the same as that for BBW, except that they abhor fat chicks, so they don't go down that route. As for myself, it's a big turnoff, although since while spooning I don't have to look at such marks, I think I could handle it if I were the one that caused the stretch marks (thankfully the buttock area can mask supine undesirability, unless there is cellulite there :eek:).
Bro, you really have too much time on your hands...
 

spinich

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Where do you come up with this crap? Please spare us.
 

HughJasolphd

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I think it's dumb to look into the psychology behind stretch marks..but I will admit that I like thicker women (curvy, chubby, big tits, thick legs, etc)
One girl I dated briefly who is now a model (easily the hottest girl I ****ed...a 10/10) had a kid & had some stretch marks on her...she fkd the **** out of me, super rough & passionate (Puerto Rican for the win)...but after we smashed she actually apologized for her stretch marks & called herself disgusting. This girl was a bombshell in every other way & still focused on the one flaw. I know it's not just her, but a lot of these model chicks really have a warped sense of self-esteem.
 

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I don't mind a few stretch marks, most fade anyway and when dealing with women majority of them will have some
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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