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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Do you think men that have a fetish for stretch marks are really just saying "I can only date single mommies, so I better like it"?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://breastandbra.com/stretch-mark-fetish-attraction/
It was a regular school day and it was in the afternoon. I was going about my business as usual when I saw “Sarah” trying to place a box up high on a top shelf. She was on her tip toes stretching as hard as she could. She placed the box and started to de-stretch for lack of a better term when her shirt became snagged. As she came down off her tip toes her shirt was pulled up about eight inches exposing her side and stomach to me. I only was able to catch a glimpse of her tummy but what I saw was stunningly gorgeous.
Sarah’s stomach was covered in stretch marks. They wrapped around her torso and extended to her sides with great beauty. Her tummy was a bit loose and flabby with post pregnancy baby fat. I marveled at her beautiful reddish and silvery colored stretch marks that adorned her body. I probably only saw her mid section for 2 to 3 seconds but it was just enough for me to realize how beautiful her stretch marks were. This is when I realized I had a “stretch mark fetish.”
my opinion: This reason for this "fetish" is the same as that for BBW, except that they abhor fat chicks, so they don't go down that route. As for myself, it's a big turnoff, although since while spooning I don't have to look at such marks, I think I could handle it if I were the one that caused the stretch marks (thankfully the buttock area can mask supine undesirability, unless there is cellulite there :eek:).
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://breastandbra.com/stretch-mark-fetish-attraction/




my opinion: This reason for this "fetish" is the same as that for BBW, except that they abhor fat chicks, so they don't go down that route. As for myself, it's a big turnoff, although since while spooning I don't have to look at such marks, I think I could handle it if I were the one that caused the stretch marks (thankfully the buttock area can mask supine undesirability, unless there is cellulite there :eek:).
Bro, you really have too much time on your hands...
 

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Where do you come up with this crap? Please spare us.
 

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I think it's dumb to look into the psychology behind stretch marks..but I will admit that I like thicker women (curvy, chubby, big tits, thick legs, etc)
One girl I dated briefly who is now a model (easily the hottest girl I ****ed...a 10/10) had a kid & had some stretch marks on her...she fkd the **** out of me, super rough & passionate (Puerto Rican for the win)...but after we smashed she actually apologized for her stretch marks & called herself disgusting. This girl was a bombshell in every other way & still focused on the one flaw. I know it's not just her, but a lot of these model chicks really have a warped sense of self-esteem.
 

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I don't mind a few stretch marks, most fade anyway and when dealing with women majority of them will have some
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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