Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do you think men that have a fetish for stretch marks are really just saying "I can only date single mommies, so I better like it"?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://breastandbra.com/stretch-mark-fetish-attraction/
It was a regular school day and it was in the afternoon. I was going about my business as usual when I saw “Sarah” trying to place a box up high on a top shelf. She was on her tip toes stretching as hard as she could. She placed the box and started to de-stretch for lack of a better term when her shirt became snagged. As she came down off her tip toes her shirt was pulled up about eight inches exposing her side and stomach to me. I only was able to catch a glimpse of her tummy but what I saw was stunningly gorgeous.
Sarah’s stomach was covered in stretch marks. They wrapped around her torso and extended to her sides with great beauty. Her tummy was a bit loose and flabby with post pregnancy baby fat. I marveled at her beautiful reddish and silvery colored stretch marks that adorned her body. I probably only saw her mid section for 2 to 3 seconds but it was just enough for me to realize how beautiful her stretch marks were. This is when I realized I had a “stretch mark fetish.”
my opinion: This reason for this "fetish" is the same as that for BBW, except that they abhor fat chicks, so they don't go down that route. As for myself, it's a big turnoff, although since while spooning I don't have to look at such marks, I think I could handle it if I were the one that caused the stretch marks (thankfully the buttock area can mask supine undesirability, unless there is cellulite there :eek:).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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R.U.G.

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://breastandbra.com/stretch-mark-fetish-attraction/




my opinion: This reason for this "fetish" is the same as that for BBW, except that they abhor fat chicks, so they don't go down that route. As for myself, it's a big turnoff, although since while spooning I don't have to look at such marks, I think I could handle it if I were the one that caused the stretch marks (thankfully the buttock area can mask supine undesirability, unless there is cellulite there :eek:).
Bro, you really have too much time on your hands...
 

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Where do you come up with this crap? Please spare us.
 

HughJasolphd

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I think it's dumb to look into the psychology behind stretch marks..but I will admit that I like thicker women (curvy, chubby, big tits, thick legs, etc)
One girl I dated briefly who is now a model (easily the hottest girl I ****ed...a 10/10) had a kid & had some stretch marks on her...she fkd the **** out of me, super rough & passionate (Puerto Rican for the win)...but after we smashed she actually apologized for her stretch marks & called herself disgusting. This girl was a bombshell in every other way & still focused on the one flaw. I know it's not just her, but a lot of these model chicks really have a warped sense of self-esteem.
 

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I don't mind a few stretch marks, most fade anyway and when dealing with women majority of them will have some
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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