"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do you think it's necessary to be antisocial to be successful at this?

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This is an extension of the topics on being a sociopath.

What does anyone here actually do that is antisocial that helps them in "game?"

Do you think a lot of girls are psychos?

Is it necessary to manipulate people and infringe on their "rights?"

I don't think it is, but maybe you know more than I do.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tell us about your penis pump implant you mentioned in your sex thread
 

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Your being ignorant just stick to the bible and get out there
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You don't need to be "antisocial" per se. You just need to not care about women.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It really comes down to being true to your self.

If you have at the top of your personalized 'hierarchy of needs' just plain animal sex, then you will pursue like-minded women. This will involve by definition anti-social traits.

If you have this drive for sex counter-balanced by more social/ rational factors [i.e. are civilized] then by definition you will not cultivate anti-social traits. You may get laid less, but this is not so important as you are putting quality over quantity.

The problem is that today we tend to interpret the social guy as the typical conformist middle-class indoctrinated AFC blue-piller etc. If you take a more Aristotelean approach you can be both social and excellent [one transcends the social], and wallah! you can be both social and a lady-killer... though way more selective.
 
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It really comes down to being true to your self.

If you have at the top of your personalized 'hierarchy of needs' just plain animal sex, then you will pursue like-minded women. This will involve by definition anti-social traits.

If you have this drive for sex counter-balanced by more social/ rational factors [i.e. are civilized] then by definition you will not cultivate anti-social traits. You may get laid less, but this is not so important as you are putting quality over quantity.

The problem is that today we tend to interpret the social guy as the typical conformist middle-class indoctrinated AFC blue-piller etc. If you take a more Aristotelean approach you can be both social and excellent [one transcends the social], and wallah! you can be both social and a lady-killer... though way more selective.
Why is sex antisocial?
 

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Why is sex antisocial?
Like most things, you can't talk about sex in the abstract. You have to contextualize it.

Personally, I think the desire for sex is the desire for a person. This is extremely social.

Animal de-personalized sex is obviously anti-social... and ultimately unrewarding and unsatisfying.
 

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Why does that help?

Do you mean not care about their well-being or not care what they think of you?
It helps because women are attracted to men who are non-nonchalant about women. Men who don't bend over backwards to appease them. Men who have an abundance mentality. Men who aren't needy.

I mean just don't care about women. Period. What they think of you, if they like you or not etc.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is an extension of the topics on being a sociopath.

What does anyone here actually do that is antisocial that helps them in "game?"

Do you think a lot of girls are psychos?

Is it necessary to manipulate people and infringe on their "rights?"

I don't think it is, but maybe you know more than I do.
This is a weird question, what do you mean antisocial? Not caring about what others think of you, having a strong sense of personal reality, being confident, outgoing and going after what you want is what I've always known gets you women. Being antisocial is not attractive neither do I think it ever will be unless your talking about something different but using the wrong word to describe it.
 

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This guy will be the death of me, I swear.

I've already responded to you and answered these questions. Why do you keep asking them? Go research a little bit about sociopaths/psychopaths and then go research the traits that we've all been saying that help you eat women. The reason why you ask this is because you don't know how to intimately interact with women at all, which is the reason why you have to pay them to have sex with you. If you understood the sexual dynamics that were actually at play between men and women, then you could see the correlation between a successful womanizer and a sociopath/psychopath.
 
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This guy will be the death of me, I swear.

I've already responded to you and answered these questions. Why do you keep asking them? Go research a little bit about sociopaths/psychopaths and then go research the traits that we've all been saying that help you eat women. The reason why you ask this is because you don't know how to intimately interact with women at all, which is the reason why you have to pay them to have sex with you. If you understood the sexual dynamics that were actually at play between men and women, then you could see the correlation between a successful womanizer and a sociopath/psychopath.
And you actually do this?

Or this is just some theory you have?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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