"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Do you think it's necessary to be antisocial to be successful at this?

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This is an extension of the topics on being a sociopath.

What does anyone here actually do that is antisocial that helps them in "game?"

Do you think a lot of girls are psychos?

Is it necessary to manipulate people and infringe on their "rights?"

I don't think it is, but maybe you know more than I do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tell us about your penis pump implant you mentioned in your sex thread
 
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Your being ignorant just stick to the bible and get out there
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You don't need to be "antisocial" per se. You just need to not care about women.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It really comes down to being true to your self.

If you have at the top of your personalized 'hierarchy of needs' just plain animal sex, then you will pursue like-minded women. This will involve by definition anti-social traits.

If you have this drive for sex counter-balanced by more social/ rational factors [i.e. are civilized] then by definition you will not cultivate anti-social traits. You may get laid less, but this is not so important as you are putting quality over quantity.

The problem is that today we tend to interpret the social guy as the typical conformist middle-class indoctrinated AFC blue-piller etc. If you take a more Aristotelean approach you can be both social and excellent [one transcends the social], and wallah! you can be both social and a lady-killer... though way more selective.
 
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ChristopherColumbus said:
It really comes down to being true to your self.

If you have at the top of your personalized 'hierarchy of needs' just plain animal sex, then you will pursue like-minded women. This will involve by definition anti-social traits.

If you have this drive for sex counter-balanced by more social/ rational factors [i.e. are civilized] then by definition you will not cultivate anti-social traits. You may get laid less, but this is not so important as you are putting quality over quantity.

The problem is that today we tend to interpret the social guy as the typical conformist middle-class indoctrinated AFC blue-piller etc. If you take a more Aristotelean approach you can be both social and excellent [one transcends the social], and wallah! you can be both social and a lady-killer... though way more selective.
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Why is sex antisocial?
 
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RichardTheFrog said:
Why is sex antisocial?
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Like most things, you can't talk about sex in the abstract. You have to contextualize it.

Personally, I think the desire for sex is the desire for a person. This is extremely social.

Animal de-personalized sex is obviously anti-social... and ultimately unrewarding and unsatisfying.
 
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Why does that help?

Do you mean not care about their well-being or not care what they think of you?
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It helps because women are attracted to men who are non-nonchalant about women. Men who don't bend over backwards to appease them. Men who have an abundance mentality. Men who aren't needy.

I mean just don't care about women. Period. What they think of you, if they like you or not etc.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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RichardTheFrog said:
This is an extension of the topics on being a sociopath.

What does anyone here actually do that is antisocial that helps them in "game?"

Do you think a lot of girls are psychos?

Is it necessary to manipulate people and infringe on their "rights?"

I don't think it is, but maybe you know more than I do.
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This is a weird question, what do you mean antisocial? Not caring about what others think of you, having a strong sense of personal reality, being confident, outgoing and going after what you want is what I've always known gets you women. Being antisocial is not attractive neither do I think it ever will be unless your talking about something different but using the wrong word to describe it.
 
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This guy will be the death of me, I swear.

I've already responded to you and answered these questions. Why do you keep asking them? Go research a little bit about sociopaths/psychopaths and then go research the traits that we've all been saying that help you eat women. The reason why you ask this is because you don't know how to intimately interact with women at all, which is the reason why you have to pay them to have sex with you. If you understood the sexual dynamics that were actually at play between men and women, then you could see the correlation between a successful womanizer and a sociopath/psychopath.
 
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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
This guy will be the death of me, I swear.

I've already responded to you and answered these questions. Why do you keep asking them? Go research a little bit about sociopaths/psychopaths and then go research the traits that we've all been saying that help you eat women. The reason why you ask this is because you don't know how to intimately interact with women at all, which is the reason why you have to pay them to have sex with you. If you understood the sexual dynamics that were actually at play between men and women, then you could see the correlation between a successful womanizer and a sociopath/psychopath.
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And you actually do this?

Or this is just some theory you have?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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