"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you think it's necessary to be antisocial to be successful at this?

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This is an extension of the topics on being a sociopath.

What does anyone here actually do that is antisocial that helps them in "game?"

Do you think a lot of girls are psychos?

Is it necessary to manipulate people and infringe on their "rights?"

I don't think it is, but maybe you know more than I do.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tell us about your penis pump implant you mentioned in your sex thread
 

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Your being ignorant just stick to the bible and get out there
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You don't need to be "antisocial" per se. You just need to not care about women.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It really comes down to being true to your self.

If you have at the top of your personalized 'hierarchy of needs' just plain animal sex, then you will pursue like-minded women. This will involve by definition anti-social traits.

If you have this drive for sex counter-balanced by more social/ rational factors [i.e. are civilized] then by definition you will not cultivate anti-social traits. You may get laid less, but this is not so important as you are putting quality over quantity.

The problem is that today we tend to interpret the social guy as the typical conformist middle-class indoctrinated AFC blue-piller etc. If you take a more Aristotelean approach you can be both social and excellent [one transcends the social], and wallah! you can be both social and a lady-killer... though way more selective.
 
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It really comes down to being true to your self.

If you have at the top of your personalized 'hierarchy of needs' just plain animal sex, then you will pursue like-minded women. This will involve by definition anti-social traits.

If you have this drive for sex counter-balanced by more social/ rational factors [i.e. are civilized] then by definition you will not cultivate anti-social traits. You may get laid less, but this is not so important as you are putting quality over quantity.

The problem is that today we tend to interpret the social guy as the typical conformist middle-class indoctrinated AFC blue-piller etc. If you take a more Aristotelean approach you can be both social and excellent [one transcends the social], and wallah! you can be both social and a lady-killer... though way more selective.
Why is sex antisocial?
 

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Why is sex antisocial?
Like most things, you can't talk about sex in the abstract. You have to contextualize it.

Personally, I think the desire for sex is the desire for a person. This is extremely social.

Animal de-personalized sex is obviously anti-social... and ultimately unrewarding and unsatisfying.
 

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Why does that help?

Do you mean not care about their well-being or not care what they think of you?
It helps because women are attracted to men who are non-nonchalant about women. Men who don't bend over backwards to appease them. Men who have an abundance mentality. Men who aren't needy.

I mean just don't care about women. Period. What they think of you, if they like you or not etc.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is an extension of the topics on being a sociopath.

What does anyone here actually do that is antisocial that helps them in "game?"

Do you think a lot of girls are psychos?

Is it necessary to manipulate people and infringe on their "rights?"

I don't think it is, but maybe you know more than I do.
This is a weird question, what do you mean antisocial? Not caring about what others think of you, having a strong sense of personal reality, being confident, outgoing and going after what you want is what I've always known gets you women. Being antisocial is not attractive neither do I think it ever will be unless your talking about something different but using the wrong word to describe it.
 

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This guy will be the death of me, I swear.

I've already responded to you and answered these questions. Why do you keep asking them? Go research a little bit about sociopaths/psychopaths and then go research the traits that we've all been saying that help you eat women. The reason why you ask this is because you don't know how to intimately interact with women at all, which is the reason why you have to pay them to have sex with you. If you understood the sexual dynamics that were actually at play between men and women, then you could see the correlation between a successful womanizer and a sociopath/psychopath.
 
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This guy will be the death of me, I swear.

I've already responded to you and answered these questions. Why do you keep asking them? Go research a little bit about sociopaths/psychopaths and then go research the traits that we've all been saying that help you eat women. The reason why you ask this is because you don't know how to intimately interact with women at all, which is the reason why you have to pay them to have sex with you. If you understood the sexual dynamics that were actually at play between men and women, then you could see the correlation between a successful womanizer and a sociopath/psychopath.
And you actually do this?

Or this is just some theory you have?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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