"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Do you think it's necessary to be antisocial to be successful at this?

R

RichardTheFrog

Banned
Joined
May 25, 2017
Messages
4,807
Reaction score
851
Location
Florida, USA
This is an extension of the topics on being a sociopath.

What does anyone here actually do that is antisocial that helps them in "game?"

Do you think a lot of girls are psychos?

Is it necessary to manipulate people and infringe on their "rights?"

I don't think it is, but maybe you know more than I do.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

J

Julian

Banned
Joined
Jul 30, 2003
Messages
4,754
Reaction score
1,216
Tell us about your penis pump implant you mentioned in your sex thread
 
TheGambino

TheGambino

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 25, 2013
Messages
2,751
Reaction score
970
Location
Somewhere
Your being ignorant just stick to the bible and get out there
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

El Payaso

El Payaso

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 16, 2014
Messages
3,621
Reaction score
2,624
You don't need to be "antisocial" per se. You just need to not care about women.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

ChristopherColumbus

ChristopherColumbus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 8, 2016
Messages
2,263
Reaction score
1,253
Age
59
Location
korea
It really comes down to being true to your self.

If you have at the top of your personalized 'hierarchy of needs' just plain animal sex, then you will pursue like-minded women. This will involve by definition anti-social traits.

If you have this drive for sex counter-balanced by more social/ rational factors [i.e. are civilized] then by definition you will not cultivate anti-social traits. You may get laid less, but this is not so important as you are putting quality over quantity.

The problem is that today we tend to interpret the social guy as the typical conformist middle-class indoctrinated AFC blue-piller etc. If you take a more Aristotelean approach you can be both social and excellent [one transcends the social], and wallah! you can be both social and a lady-killer... though way more selective.
 
R

RichardTheFrog

Banned
Joined
May 25, 2017
Messages
4,807
Reaction score
851
Location
Florida, USA
ChristopherColumbus said:
It really comes down to being true to your self.

If you have at the top of your personalized 'hierarchy of needs' just plain animal sex, then you will pursue like-minded women. This will involve by definition anti-social traits.

If you have this drive for sex counter-balanced by more social/ rational factors [i.e. are civilized] then by definition you will not cultivate anti-social traits. You may get laid less, but this is not so important as you are putting quality over quantity.

The problem is that today we tend to interpret the social guy as the typical conformist middle-class indoctrinated AFC blue-piller etc. If you take a more Aristotelean approach you can be both social and excellent [one transcends the social], and wallah! you can be both social and a lady-killer... though way more selective.
Click to expand...
Why is sex antisocial?
 
ChristopherColumbus

ChristopherColumbus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 8, 2016
Messages
2,263
Reaction score
1,253
Age
59
Location
korea
RichardTheFrog said:
Why is sex antisocial?
Click to expand...
Like most things, you can't talk about sex in the abstract. You have to contextualize it.

Personally, I think the desire for sex is the desire for a person. This is extremely social.

Animal de-personalized sex is obviously anti-social... and ultimately unrewarding and unsatisfying.
 
El Payaso

El Payaso

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 16, 2014
Messages
3,621
Reaction score
2,624
RichardTheFrog said:
Why does that help?

Do you mean not care about their well-being or not care what they think of you?
Click to expand...
It helps because women are attracted to men who are non-nonchalant about women. Men who don't bend over backwards to appease them. Men who have an abundance mentality. Men who aren't needy.

I mean just don't care about women. Period. What they think of you, if they like you or not etc.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

A

Asasione

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 15, 2009
Messages
239
Reaction score
99
RichardTheFrog said:
This is an extension of the topics on being a sociopath.

What does anyone here actually do that is antisocial that helps them in "game?"

Do you think a lot of girls are psychos?

Is it necessary to manipulate people and infringe on their "rights?"

I don't think it is, but maybe you know more than I do.
Click to expand...
This is a weird question, what do you mean antisocial? Not caring about what others think of you, having a strong sense of personal reality, being confident, outgoing and going after what you want is what I've always known gets you women. Being antisocial is not attractive neither do I think it ever will be unless your talking about something different but using the wrong word to describe it.
 
ImTheDoubleGreatest!

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 14, 2014
Messages
5,747
Reaction score
2,964
Age
27
Location
Right behind you
This guy will be the death of me, I swear.

I've already responded to you and answered these questions. Why do you keep asking them? Go research a little bit about sociopaths/psychopaths and then go research the traits that we've all been saying that help you eat women. The reason why you ask this is because you don't know how to intimately interact with women at all, which is the reason why you have to pay them to have sex with you. If you understood the sexual dynamics that were actually at play between men and women, then you could see the correlation between a successful womanizer and a sociopath/psychopath.
 
R

RichardTheFrog

Banned
Joined
May 25, 2017
Messages
4,807
Reaction score
851
Location
Florida, USA
ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
This guy will be the death of me, I swear.

I've already responded to you and answered these questions. Why do you keep asking them? Go research a little bit about sociopaths/psychopaths and then go research the traits that we've all been saying that help you eat women. The reason why you ask this is because you don't know how to intimately interact with women at all, which is the reason why you have to pay them to have sex with you. If you understood the sexual dynamics that were actually at play between men and women, then you could see the correlation between a successful womanizer and a sociopath/psychopath.
Click to expand...
And you actually do this?

Or this is just some theory you have?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top