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Dust 2 Dust...Bruce lee was a skilled groundfighter too....Gene Lebell trained him in that aspect of fighting!!!
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
At the time he died, doctors estimated Bruce Lee's bodyfat percentage to be LESS THAN 1%.Originally posted by PeoplesChamp
NO ONE out trained Bruce Lee. He obviously has OCD tendencies with just how fanatical he was with his training.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
As for Bruce Lee, he stopped training in Kung fu because he went to America, he was training with Yip Man and Wong Shun Leung in Hong Kong, 2 fighters who's level he never came close to. In his only real fight (against a martial arts "master" Wong Jack Man) Bruce gave up because he was too tired, he tried to kill Sifu Wong and gouge out his eyes, and Wong basically kept him at bay with long kicks till Bruce quit. There are various accounts of the fight, all the neutral accounts I have read give that description, the one from Bruce's wife (who wasnt there) say that Bruce won, but I believe she is just repeating what he claimed. Bruce later declined a rematch with Sifu Wong.Originally posted by PeoplesChamp
Ever Seen the movie "Unleashed" with Jet Li. There is this scene in there where he is entered into an underground fighting competition and he is forced to fight a champion who undefeated and has been champion for something like a year. Anyway they are both set loose in this box-like ring. The first thing the champion does to intimidate Li is take a brick and break it into rubble on his head (obvious hollywood exaggeration!). Li walks up to the guy, punches him three times in the adam's apple pushing it back into his spinal cord, blood comes out the champion mouth and falls over dead.
So what's the relevance? That is how a REAL fight with someone train in Gung Fu or JKD goes. Gung Fu not Ultimate Fighting, Mia Thai, Wrestling, Grappling, or Karate or any other bull**** fighting style. It is specfically meant for street fighting/ killing someone with your bare hands a quickly and efficently as possible. It's not talking about so and so AFC who fights on tv could break your arm in 8 seconds. In those 8 seconds Lee would have already killed the guy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I heard he was discoved by a movie producer while competing in martial arts competition in Long Beach, Ca.Originally posted by HateOnMe
Haha Don't all legends exeed the men behind them? Were still just human. But the question I have is does Bruce Lee have any records of being in any martial arts competition?
I had not read the whole thread except up to this point so excuse me.Originally posted by Dust 2 Dust
The whole purpose of the UFC, Pride, etc., was to find out which style worked best. Now it has evolved to where you obviously have to be skilled in several areas. Bruce Lee would not be competitive by today's standard for that exact reason. That's why you don't see any Kung Fu, Karate, or Jeet Kun Do fighters in MMA.
You said Kung Fu is useless, yet San Da itself comes directly from Shaolin Kung Fu and mixes various aspect of it. Kung Fu, true Kung Fu (directly from China and its ancient aspect) has MANY grappling moves.San Da is a mixed martial art.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Well said, but I personally don't mind learning the art regardless of how bad it is, they're quite nice in stretching you and making you more a rounded fighter.Originally posted by Dust 2 Dust
Sifer, many people originally began studying in arts such as TKD and karate. i myself got a blackbelt in TKD when i was 9 years old and I will tell you from experience 80% of the techniques being taught in TKD and Karate schools are useless. That's why Bas and other fighters branched out from these fighting stlyes to become complete.
JKD doesnt involve instant death touches...Originally posted by Dust 2 Dust
PeoplesChamp, I do not believe in any fighting style which advocates "instant death touches" or any similar techniques. Bruce Lee was never able to prove any of these techniques worked and the one real fight he was ever in he got his azz kicked by Sifu Wong. Bruce came at him with one of his "eye gouge death techniques" and Sifu Wong pummeled him with leg kicks.
Yes, I believe Fung Fu is useless which is why Bruce Lee abandoned traditional Kung Fu. He himself knew it didn't work.
Sifer, many people originally began studying in arts such as TKD and karate. i myself got a blackbelt in TKD when i was 9 years old and I will tell you from experience 80% of the techniques being taught in TKD and Karate schools are useless. That's why Bas and other fighters branched out from these fighting stlyes to become complete.
um, isn't that really unhealthy?Originally posted by manuva
At the time he died, doctors estimated Bruce Lee's bodyfat percentage to be LESS THAN 1%.
Incredible.
Bruce Lee only weighed 128 pounds when he diedOriginally posted by DJ_in_making
um, isn't that really unhealthy?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.