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Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you think big-bellied, champion weightlifters are incels?

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This guy can throw some serious weight around!


But I can't help but think that this if this guy were at a party, chicks would think the only weights he throws around are the 1/2 kg ones (i.e., half-liters of mostly water). That said, it would seem that there should be at least a few decently attractive women that understand that men like this have the truly alpha-tier level of a most important masculine trait.

Of course, sometimes these guys are apportioned as per a tera-Chad:
I can't see many dry vajayas in this man's presence (at least c. 1980). :eek:
 
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This guy can throw some serious weight around!


But I can't help but think that this if this guy were at a party, chicks would think the only weights he throws around are the 1/2 kg ones (i.e., half-liters of mostly water). That said, it would seem that there should be at least a few decently attractive women that understand that men like this have the truly alpha-tier level of a most important masculine trait.

Of course, sometimes these guys are apportioned as per a tera-Chad:
I can't see many dry vajayas in this man's presence (at least c. 1980). :eek:
Are you blackpill or something? I know a guy with an amazing athletic body who was an incel until his mid twenties. And I also know a guy who is fat and not strong but ****s girls who are 8-9/10 regularly. Women don't try to consciously seek "alpha men", they just perceive your social value and it doesn't really matter how it is displayed. You can get laid because you are goodlooking, or because you are charismatic, or because you are a cool guy in her social circle, or for many other reasons. Attraction in humans isn't one-dimensional.
 

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I've always been a little leery of heavy duty ab exercises, because I've heard your ab muscles may grow out instead of flat. Which results in a barrel shape instead of the V taper that is desirable. I've seen a lot of heavy lifters who have that apple shape. Some eat badly, but I'm sure for others it's genetics. Men are built for action, women are built to look good.
 

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I've always been a little leery of heavy duty ab exercises, because I've heard your ab muscles may grow out instead of flat. Which results in a barrel shape instead of the V taper that is desirable. I've seen a lot of heavy lifters who have that apple shape. Some eat badly, but I'm sure for others it's genetics. Men are built for action, women are built to look good.
I think you are referring to a known side effect of getting all kinds of steroids, which causes ones gut to be unnaturally pronounced.
If you are not on any kind of such drugs, which I guess no one here is, ab exercises are fine I think.
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

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I think you are referring to a known side effect of getting all kinds of steroids, which causes ones gut to be unnaturally pronounced.
If you are not on any kind of such drugs, which I guess no one here is, ab exercises are fine I think.
Big Lenny
 

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Nope. Too much status. Plus if he is a champion, women love winners.
 
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