"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you think big-bellied, champion weightlifters are incels?

MatureDJ

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This guy can throw some serious weight around!


But I can't help but think that this if this guy were at a party, chicks would think the only weights he throws around are the 1/2 kg ones (i.e., half-liters of mostly water). That said, it would seem that there should be at least a few decently attractive women that understand that men like this have the truly alpha-tier level of a most important masculine trait.

Of course, sometimes these guys are apportioned as per a tera-Chad:
I can't see many dry vajayas in this man's presence (at least c. 1980). :eek:
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This guy can throw some serious weight around!


But I can't help but think that this if this guy were at a party, chicks would think the only weights he throws around are the 1/2 kg ones (i.e., half-liters of mostly water). That said, it would seem that there should be at least a few decently attractive women that understand that men like this have the truly alpha-tier level of a most important masculine trait.

Of course, sometimes these guys are apportioned as per a tera-Chad:
I can't see many dry vajayas in this man's presence (at least c. 1980). :eek:
Are you blackpill or something? I know a guy with an amazing athletic body who was an incel until his mid twenties. And I also know a guy who is fat and not strong but ****s girls who are 8-9/10 regularly. Women don't try to consciously seek "alpha men", they just perceive your social value and it doesn't really matter how it is displayed. You can get laid because you are goodlooking, or because you are charismatic, or because you are a cool guy in her social circle, or for many other reasons. Attraction in humans isn't one-dimensional.
 

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I've always been a little leery of heavy duty ab exercises, because I've heard your ab muscles may grow out instead of flat. Which results in a barrel shape instead of the V taper that is desirable. I've seen a lot of heavy lifters who have that apple shape. Some eat badly, but I'm sure for others it's genetics. Men are built for action, women are built to look good.
 

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I've always been a little leery of heavy duty ab exercises, because I've heard your ab muscles may grow out instead of flat. Which results in a barrel shape instead of the V taper that is desirable. I've seen a lot of heavy lifters who have that apple shape. Some eat badly, but I'm sure for others it's genetics. Men are built for action, women are built to look good.
I think you are referring to a known side effect of getting all kinds of steroids, which causes ones gut to be unnaturally pronounced.
If you are not on any kind of such drugs, which I guess no one here is, ab exercises are fine I think.
 

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Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think you are referring to a known side effect of getting all kinds of steroids, which causes ones gut to be unnaturally pronounced.
If you are not on any kind of such drugs, which I guess no one here is, ab exercises are fine I think.
Big Lenny
 

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Nope. Too much status. Plus if he is a champion, women love winners.
 
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