Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Focused and not chill. That makes complete sense. Sounds like what you are saying is they can feel his energy. Even though he actually doesn’t come across as desperate on the surface as far as what he says to them. I did just find out since my last post that he did get a date for prom and went to prom last night. A freshman chick. When I was a senior I liked to game the freshman. I’m proud of him.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Of course not. As mentioned above, TFM refere to these women as extreme male brain. They are non-maternal. If physically attractive, far from feminine. Highly in their head.
Any ideas as to why? Is your wife ir ex old when she had him? By old, i mean 30+? I think fertilit drugs, birth control, gmo, preservatives, lifestyle, etc are the cause on autism but I have only speculation and what data i seen online.
Research indicates that genetic factors predominate, but the truth be told its largely an unknown. My wife was only 23 when he was born so that is definitely not a factor. Our focus is very much on the future as opposed to lingering on the possibly cause.
High functioning or low function?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.