She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Focused and not chill. That makes complete sense. Sounds like what you are saying is they can feel his energy. Even though he actually doesn’t come across as desperate on the surface as far as what he says to them. I did just find out since my last post that he did get a date for prom and went to prom last night. A freshman chick. When I was a senior I liked to game the freshman. I’m proud of him.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Of course not. As mentioned above, TFM refere to these women as extreme male brain. They are non-maternal. If physically attractive, far from feminine. Highly in their head.
Any ideas as to why? Is your wife ir ex old when she had him? By old, i mean 30+? I think fertilit drugs, birth control, gmo, preservatives, lifestyle, etc are the cause on autism but I have only speculation and what data i seen online.
Research indicates that genetic factors predominate, but the truth be told its largely an unknown. My wife was only 23 when he was born so that is definitely not a factor. Our focus is very much on the future as opposed to lingering on the possibly cause.
High functioning or low function?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.