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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

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Do you think a man's 1st wife typically hold a deep grudge against his 2nd wife?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this about a certain Alpha's first wife, and it got me interested:

https://www.eonline.com/news/886011...r-juicy-revelations-from-ivana-trump-s-memoir
The author typically referred to Donald's second wife as "the showgirl" rather than by her name and said she does not accept Marla's apology. "This woman broke up my marriage and took away my kids' father. I don't care how sorry she is," Ivana wrote. "She wants my absolution for her sake! I'm doing just fine with my resentment, thank you very much."
As for Maples' appearance on Dancing With the Stars, Ivana called it a "disgrace." "The showgirl appeared on DWTS when (because) her ex-husband was running for president! It was disrespectful to do the show. I never would have embarrassed Donald that way."
my opinion: Ooh, cat fight! :p
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I was reading this about a certain Alpha's first wife, and it got me interested:

https://www.eonline.com/news/886011...r-juicy-revelations-from-ivana-trump-s-memoir




my opinion: Ooh, cat fight! :p
He was cheating on Ivana with Maples so it’s understandable why she would be resentful. He also has money so she would want to hang onto to that, though she certainly didn’t walk away penniless.

I think the first wife being resentful of the second wife depends on a lot of factors, including who left who and whether the first wife wanted to stay with the husband.
 

Who Dares Win

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Womens anger over losing a man is proportionate to his SMV, my ex girlfriend wouldnt give a flying fvck about knowing me with an other girl.

If I was a famous goodlooking actor or a wealthy entrepreneur hitting the most exclusive parties she would surely do, not cause of me but cause of a perception of "territory".
 

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"I want him because she has him." It's only natural.

And of course, it goes without saying that if her current significant other is dog sh it compared to the ex husband, she's gonna have regret, however minimal.

However, jealousy may not be the only reason she holds a grudge. If the man's new family is replacing the mutual kids in terms of priority in his life, you can bet your ass her ire is drawn.
 

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No.

Not against the 2nd wife, but she would hold more grudge against the ex-husband......based on my experience with a couple of divorced women in my family.
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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