"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you think a man's 1st wife typically hold a deep grudge against his 2nd wife?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this about a certain Alpha's first wife, and it got me interested:

https://www.eonline.com/news/886011...r-juicy-revelations-from-ivana-trump-s-memoir
The author typically referred to Donald's second wife as "the showgirl" rather than by her name and said she does not accept Marla's apology. "This woman broke up my marriage and took away my kids' father. I don't care how sorry she is," Ivana wrote. "She wants my absolution for her sake! I'm doing just fine with my resentment, thank you very much."
As for Maples' appearance on Dancing With the Stars, Ivana called it a "disgrace." "The showgirl appeared on DWTS when (because) her ex-husband was running for president! It was disrespectful to do the show. I never would have embarrassed Donald that way."
my opinion: Ooh, cat fight! :p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was reading this about a certain Alpha's first wife, and it got me interested:

https://www.eonline.com/news/886011...r-juicy-revelations-from-ivana-trump-s-memoir




my opinion: Ooh, cat fight! :p
He was cheating on Ivana with Maples so it’s understandable why she would be resentful. He also has money so she would want to hang onto to that, though she certainly didn’t walk away penniless.

I think the first wife being resentful of the second wife depends on a lot of factors, including who left who and whether the first wife wanted to stay with the husband.
 

Who Dares Win

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Womens anger over losing a man is proportionate to his SMV, my ex girlfriend wouldnt give a flying fvck about knowing me with an other girl.

If I was a famous goodlooking actor or a wealthy entrepreneur hitting the most exclusive parties she would surely do, not cause of me but cause of a perception of "territory".
 

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"I want him because she has him." It's only natural.

And of course, it goes without saying that if her current significant other is dog sh it compared to the ex husband, she's gonna have regret, however minimal.

However, jealousy may not be the only reason she holds a grudge. If the man's new family is replacing the mutual kids in terms of priority in his life, you can bet your ass her ire is drawn.
 

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No.

Not against the 2nd wife, but she would hold more grudge against the ex-husband......based on my experience with a couple of divorced women in my family.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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