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Do you think a lot of in-shape men go for fatties because they are used to their mothers being fat?

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I was watching this amazing cattle auctioneer and his mother, and it got me thinking:

 

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"Do you think a lot of in-shape men go for fatties because they are used to their mothers being fat?"

Nah... That's an activity one resorts to, once he bores of actual swine, succumbs to those fantasies of

-Abducting a Melissa McCarthy lookalike from a Target parking lot at quarter to 10 one evening

-Jamming a sharpened steel rod up her poopshoot, and straight through the top of her skull

-Roasting the remains over that firepit in the back yard he spent all weekend digging

Come to think of it, a dude DOES have to he fairly fit, to successfully execute such a scheme
 
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It's because fat women will take care of a in shape guy, let him drive her car, pay rent, give him money etc.
I've seen this and even experienced it to some degree
But an overweight woman will finance an in shape guy's life

Here is the kicker, those guys are most likely cheating on her, and due to some women having low self-esteem they will put up with it
We used to call those hobosexuals
 

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Probably variety, and some guys are just into that, especially if they are into outercourse. There is more to do outercourse with a fattie. (ie between her tits, butt cheeks, belly button, etc....). Outercourse is virtually 0% chance of contracting an STD being totally unprotected.
 

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Probably variety, and some guys are just into that, especially if they are into outercourse. There is more to do outercourse with a fattie. (ie between her tits, butt cheeks, belly button, etc....). Outercourse is virtually 0% chance of contracting an STD being totally unprotected.
Outercourse! :D:rofl::eek:

This reminds of the old joke about how to fork a fat chick - just roll her around in flour and look for the wet spot. :eek::eek:
 

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Outercourse is virtually 0% chance of contracting an STD being totally unprotected
It depends on what you call an STD. Herpes is spread by skin to skin contact, and has evolved to be able to live all over the body, not just the lips and genitals. College wrestling programs have had their season shut down over giving each other herpes. I've also seen guys in jiu jitsu spread around ringworm and MRSA, the drug resistant staph that is like leprosy if left untreated.
 

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It's because they have low standards.
Bbw escorts are making allot of money. Its not lower standards, its fetish and social pressure. In fact, even in ancient cultures, the fat bbws are put on a pedistle. That is why their goddess are depicting fat bbw women. Slimmer women is just modern western conditioning. Conditioned standards have cracks that show over time.
 

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Bbw escorts are making allot of money. Its not lower standards, its fetish and social pressure. In fact, even in ancient cultures, the fat bbws are put on a pedistle. That is why their goddess are depicting fat bbw women. Slimmer women is just modern western conditioning. Conditioned standards have cracks that show over time.
Thank God there are men that want them so there are more hotties for me.

They can go ride the waves of fat.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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It depends on what you call an STD. Herpes is spread by skin to skin contact, and has evolved to be able to live all over the body, not just the lips and genitals. College wrestling programs have had their season shut down over giving each other herpes. I've also seen guys in jiu jitsu spread around ringworm and MRSA, the drug resistant staph that is like leprosy if left untreated.
Use hand sanitizer or make sure she showers first.
 

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Thank God there are men that want them so there are more hotties for me.

They can go ride the waves of fat.
You dont use hotter escort, so its not more hotter escorts available to book from for you, lol! What I am saying is if what you were saying is true, bbw escorts would not exist since nobody would pay for that if they can pay the same for hotter women.
 

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Showers don't prevent STDs. However, if you want to titty-fvck fat hookers with hand sanitizer as lube, you might be on to something. That could be the next big thing.
A little slippery hot dog action never hurt anyone! Although depending on how fat they are, you might not be able to get down low enough if you are straddling them to get your d!ck in between their tits of their belly is in the way :lol: :lol: :lol:
 

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Breasts themselves are not a typical transmission site for herpes.


Here’s how to think about it:

1. Breast skin = normal skin

  • The skin on the breasts is regular, intact skin, similar to arms or thighs
  • Herpes does not easily infect or pass through healthy skin like this
2. When transmission could theoretically happen

This would require very specific conditions, such as:


  • An active herpes sore directly on the breast or nipple (this is rare)
  • Prolonged direct contact
  • And often broken skin or contact with a mucous membrane (mouth/genitals)

Without those factors, transmission doesn’t realistically occur.

3. What about nipples?

  • Nipples are slightly more sensitive than surrounding skin
  • But without an active lesion, they are not a practical risk
  • Casual contact or brushing against someone is not a concern
4. Real-world reassurance

  • Herpes spreads primarily through:
    • Kissing (mouth/lips)
    • Sexual contact (genital areas)
  • Not through general body skin contact like breasts, torso, or hands
Bottom line:

  • ✔ No sores + intact breast skin = no meaningful transmission risk
  • ✔ Herpes is not quietly spreading through everyday skin contact
  • ✔ You do not need to be on guard about normal human closeness

There’s a lot of exaggerated fear around herpes. In reality, transmission requires direct contact with oral or genital skin where the virus is shedding. Casual touch, body contact, breasts, thighs, or clothed contact are not meaningful risks. Outercourse is therefore much lower risk than oral or penetrative sex, though no sexual contact is zero-risk.
 

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Who thinks of this sh-t?

I’m no stranger to in-shape people. How common is this?
 

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I was watching this amazing cattle auctioneer and his mother, and it got me thinking:

His mother is an old woman - probably around 70 years old, her body certainly did not look like that when she was 20-something.
 

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In fact, even in ancient cultures, the fat bbws are put on a pedistle. That is why their goddess are depicting fat bbw women.
Yeah, and some God's in the past had multiple heads and multiple hands. I think some gods were not even human, but animals like Goats and cows.

Slimmer women is just modern western conditioning. Conditioned standards have cracks that show over time.
Attractiveness is signified by being able to have healthy babies, being able to survive the environment (mentally smart enough, physically capable enough, etc).

.Attractiveness cannot imho be a conditioned standard because certain aspects go counter to the above. For example being fat, a woman has a lower chance of reproducing, will die sooner (if she is able to reproduce, she will not be able to reproduce as many, etc). Also, in the past for the majority of women being fat will not allow her gather food as well.. or run away from danger.

there are certain small intervals of time where being fat was a status symbol (being a king, queen, part of the upper class) which signify that that person had the means to be fat even though for most of the population being fat was a burden. In that case, its more of a fetish.. not the mainstrean or what got young men to have hard ons.

what got men hard ons have been fairly consistent throughout history since that is what caused humans to reproduce and not die out.
 

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Bbw escorts are making allot of money. Its not lower standards, its fetish and social pressure. In fact, even in ancient cultures, the fat bbws are put on a pedistle. That is why their goddess are depicting fat bbw women. Slimmer women is just modern western conditioning. Conditioned standards have cracks that show over time.
In a society where famine was a regular phenomenon (i.e. most ancient societies), being fat was a rare accomplishment and an indicator of great wealth and status. In contrast, in a society where food is abundant, fetishized and largely unhealthy (modern-day America), NOT being fat is an accomplishment.
 

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Considering like 70% of women are fat, no. If that was the case, chubby chasing would be the norm.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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