"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you think a lot of in-shape men go for fatties because they are used to their mothers being fat?

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In a society where famine was a regular phenomenon (i.e. most ancient societies), being fat was a rare accomplishment and an indicator of great wealth and status. In contrast, in a society where food is abundant, fetishized and largely unhealthy (modern-day America), NOT being fat is an accomplishment.
Thanks for taking my satirical post seriously.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My coworker is a former college track sprinter and a nice guy and his wife is very big. She is really sweet and makes some damn good cakes so i guess he is happy.
 
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