"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Do you think a 5' 4" President Bloomberg would make short men cool? Will Trump try to make stupid heightist jokes about him?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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If you were treated as a kid despite being in your 40s you would be pissed off too
Short men have all my sympathy, I see the way people and women especially treat them, that would drive a saint mad.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Trump is a cry baby bvtch with a true height of 6’1. He fudged his height and weight to avoid the “obese” BMI classification.
Bloomberg is 5’7-5’8. Same height as super alpha dog Vladomir Putin. (Putin is a real alpha male)
I have absolute faith that the Black and Latino communities will come out in overwhelming numbers to support Trump in Nov....
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I have absolute faith that statement is delusional. I respect your optimism though.
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Funny, Bloomberg on his worst day is 50 times richer and more alpha than Trump. Even Biden and Bernie behave more like men than the fat orange crybaby.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Mini Mike championed Stop-And-Frisk which predominantly targeted young Black men... Under Trump, Black unemployment is at a historic low...
....the Black community will come out in droves to support Trump....
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Stop lying to yourself.
That’s a joke, right? NYC is the safest and most prosperous it’s been in decades. Do you even live here?
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Trump is a klansman like his father.
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Thats fair criticism. But hey, at least he’s competent and data driven. I miss having a smart President. Even Daffy Duck is an improvement over Trump.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's a shame that your Trump Derangement Syndrome blinds you to the truth.....While Mini Mike wants to stop-and-frisk random Black folks, Trump has been pardoning Black persons unfairly and excessively incarcerated for minor drug offenses...
....here is a clip of an emotional Alice Marie Johnson who served 20 years and was pardoned by Trump...Bush didnt pardon her, Obama didn't pardon her, Trump pardoned her.....
...she thanks Trump for giving her a second chance at life....
.....Trump is this generation's Abraham Lincoln....
....the Black and Latino communities will come out in droves to re-elect Donald Trump....
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You are in a cult. Theres help available.
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That’s an even bigger joke.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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