One on One
Master Don Juan
Alright, basic question...you're pursuing a girl, your friends know you are after that. You soon **** her. Do you reveal this to your friends? How much action do you reveal?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Do you tell your homies when you screw?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
TDK4
Don Juan
To me it depends on who im talking with. Some of your boys are more trustworthy than the others. Alot of the time I am silent about what goes on, but as a guy I do have an ego. So yes, with some people I do tell details, but usually only with people who have told me similar stories who I know are trustworthy and wont spread the word.
InLawsHateMe
Master Don Juan
Don't even bother... the chic will get the message to them sooner or later.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
princelydeeds
Master Don Juan
i wont lie I tell my two best friends everything. Its a contest b/n us, to see who can get laid the most and by the highest quality broads. I only tell those two my business because i know it will stay b/n us.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
tell your closer friends, but don't go bragging about it to everyone you see.
Also when you tell your homies don't brag too much about it or they'll probably end up spreading it
Also when you tell your homies don't brag too much about it or they'll probably end up spreading it
trajhenkhet
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OleRyder is on it. I used to be open with my close friends but I have found that is not a real good policy.
The Time Machine
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pressing the blue button...bump!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I've got one real close friend that I share stories with at times, he shares stories with me so it's cool.. we tell each other who we're after and how it's going sorta thing.
I personally feel kinda awkward going into too much detail, but I'll get the point across.
I personally feel kinda awkward going into too much detail, but I'll get the point across.
nismo-4
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In English: No!
In Spanish: No!
In German: Nein!
In Russian: Nyet!
In Ebonics: Hell no!
In Spanish: No!
In German: Nein!
In Russian: Nyet!
In Ebonics: Hell no!
Wouldn't that actually be "Hell Naw!"nismo-4 said:
And yes, i agree, Don't kiss and tell except to the most trusted of friends. only bad bad things will happen. Your ego shouldn't need that stroking anyways. And yes, i know it feels good to tell someone"Yeah man, i totally banged her. " or whatever, but the drama it can create will make the hour or two you spent with her seem inconsequential to the days and weeks you'll spend getting grilled.
Keep your private life private.
DJ Barcardi
Banned
Im not telling my friends anymore! Is telling your friends AFC behavoir?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.