One on One
Master Don Juan
Alright, basic question...you're pursuing a girl, your friends know you are after that. You soon **** her. Do you reveal this to your friends? How much action do you reveal?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Do you tell your homies when you screw?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
TDK4
Don Juan
To me it depends on who im talking with. Some of your boys are more trustworthy than the others. Alot of the time I am silent about what goes on, but as a guy I do have an ego. So yes, with some people I do tell details, but usually only with people who have told me similar stories who I know are trustworthy and wont spread the word.
InLawsHateMe
Master Don Juan
Don't even bother... the chic will get the message to them sooner or later.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
princelydeeds
Master Don Juan
i wont lie I tell my two best friends everything. Its a contest b/n us, to see who can get laid the most and by the highest quality broads. I only tell those two my business because i know it will stay b/n us.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
tell your closer friends, but don't go bragging about it to everyone you see.
Also when you tell your homies don't brag too much about it or they'll probably end up spreading it
Also when you tell your homies don't brag too much about it or they'll probably end up spreading it
trajhenkhet
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OleRyder is on it. I used to be open with my close friends but I have found that is not a real good policy.
The Time Machine
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pressing the blue button...bump!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I've got one real close friend that I share stories with at times, he shares stories with me so it's cool.. we tell each other who we're after and how it's going sorta thing.
I personally feel kinda awkward going into too much detail, but I'll get the point across.
I personally feel kinda awkward going into too much detail, but I'll get the point across.
nismo-4
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In English: No!
In Spanish: No!
In German: Nein!
In Russian: Nyet!
In Ebonics: Hell no!
In Spanish: No!
In German: Nein!
In Russian: Nyet!
In Ebonics: Hell no!
Wouldn't that actually be "Hell Naw!"nismo-4 said:
And yes, i agree, Don't kiss and tell except to the most trusted of friends. only bad bad things will happen. Your ego shouldn't need that stroking anyways. And yes, i know it feels good to tell someone"Yeah man, i totally banged her. " or whatever, but the drama it can create will make the hour or two you spent with her seem inconsequential to the days and weeks you'll spend getting grilled.
Keep your private life private.
DJ Barcardi
Banned
Im not telling my friends anymore! Is telling your friends AFC behavoir?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.