One on One
Master Don Juan
Alright, basic question...you're pursuing a girl, your friends know you are after that. You soon **** her. Do you reveal this to your friends? How much action do you reveal?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Do you tell your homies when you screw?
- Thread starter One on One
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
TDK4
Don Juan
To me it depends on who im talking with. Some of your boys are more trustworthy than the others. Alot of the time I am silent about what goes on, but as a guy I do have an ego. So yes, with some people I do tell details, but usually only with people who have told me similar stories who I know are trustworthy and wont spread the word.
InLawsHateMe
Master Don Juan
Don't even bother... the chic will get the message to them sooner or later.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
princelydeeds
Master Don Juan
i wont lie I tell my two best friends everything. Its a contest b/n us, to see who can get laid the most and by the highest quality broads. I only tell those two my business because i know it will stay b/n us.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
tell your closer friends, but don't go bragging about it to everyone you see.
Also when you tell your homies don't brag too much about it or they'll probably end up spreading it
Also when you tell your homies don't brag too much about it or they'll probably end up spreading it
trajhenkhet
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OleRyder is on it. I used to be open with my close friends but I have found that is not a real good policy.
The Time Machine
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pressing the blue button...bump!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I've got one real close friend that I share stories with at times, he shares stories with me so it's cool.. we tell each other who we're after and how it's going sorta thing.
I personally feel kinda awkward going into too much detail, but I'll get the point across.
I personally feel kinda awkward going into too much detail, but I'll get the point across.
nismo-4
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In English: No!
In Spanish: No!
In German: Nein!
In Russian: Nyet!
In Ebonics: Hell no!
In Spanish: No!
In German: Nein!
In Russian: Nyet!
In Ebonics: Hell no!
Wouldn't that actually be "Hell Naw!"nismo-4 said:
And yes, i agree, Don't kiss and tell except to the most trusted of friends. only bad bad things will happen. Your ego shouldn't need that stroking anyways. And yes, i know it feels good to tell someone"Yeah man, i totally banged her. " or whatever, but the drama it can create will make the hour or two you spent with her seem inconsequential to the days and weeks you'll spend getting grilled.
Keep your private life private.
DJ Barcardi
Banned
Im not telling my friends anymore! Is telling your friends AFC behavoir?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.