"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do you tell your homies when you screw?

One on One

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Alright, basic question...you're pursuing a girl, your friends know you are after that. You soon **** her. Do you reveal this to your friends? How much action do you reveal?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TDK4

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To me it depends on who im talking with. Some of your boys are more trustworthy than the others. Alot of the time I am silent about what goes on, but as a guy I do have an ego. So yes, with some people I do tell details, but usually only with people who have told me similar stories who I know are trustworthy and wont spread the word.
When in doubt use the smell test. - Maurice Chavez, Grand Theft Auto: Vice City
 

bludb0i

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no keep it silent that way you dont get a bad rep and can keep on gettin ass from diffrent girls.
 

AFI336

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I have only 2 friends that I tell how much action I get from a certain chick, and that's only because they have told me stories too, so I trust that nothing will slip out of their mouth.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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princelydeeds

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i wont lie I tell my two best friends everything. Its a contest b/n us, to see who can get laid the most and by the highest quality broads. I only tell those two my business because i know it will stay b/n us.
 

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tell your closer friends, but don't go bragging about it to everyone you see.
Also when you tell your homies don't brag too much about it or they'll probably end up spreading it
 

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A *gentleman* doesn't. Then again, a gentleman wouldn't have "homies", either.
 

trajhenkhet

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OleRyder is on it. I used to be open with my close friends but I have found that is not a real good policy.
 
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pressing the blue button...bump!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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King Turi

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I've got one real close friend that I share stories with at times, he shares stories with me so it's cool.. we tell each other who we're after and how it's going sorta thing.

I personally feel kinda awkward going into too much detail, but I'll get the point across.
 

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In English: No!

In Spanish: No!

In German: Nein!

In Russian: Nyet!

In Ebonics: Hell no!
 

Aragon034

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nismo-4 said:
In Ebonics: Hell no!
Wouldn't that actually be "Hell Naw!"

And yes, i agree, Don't kiss and tell except to the most trusted of friends. only bad bad things will happen. Your ego shouldn't need that stroking anyways. And yes, i know it feels good to tell someone"Yeah man, i totally banged her. " or whatever, but the drama it can create will make the hour or two you spent with her seem inconsequential to the days and weeks you'll spend getting grilled.

Keep your private life private.
 

DJ Barcardi

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Im not telling my friends anymore! Is telling your friends AFC behavoir?
 

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I don't think it matters one way or the other. I have never had anything negative happen from it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Warrior74

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Nah. That's pretty highschoolish/college aged behavior. It's just assumed if you're a grown man, you get laid on a somewhat regular basis.
 
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