"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Do you still OVER ANALYZE thins with women?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Likewise,if things went downhill,and I know what caused it to turn out bad,then I can avoid those things on purpose.
I'm chaning my WHOLE mindset... I'm starting to realise that worrying over the uncontrollable... DAMN! BAd bad thing indeed. I'm going to analyse a little bit maybe, but living IN THE MOMENT.
There's a difference between analysing things ONCE, step out of yourself and watch yourself to tell yourself why are you nervous?! no reason! And ALWAYS being analysing things for no good reason.
from now on I'll take much more focus on the fun and living in the moment, and waste no time worrying about my ego and so. And then I'll be much more happier!
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Yea they are . A guy who gets laid alot would never come to a forum and ask " i just called her but she didnt answer what to do ?? " or these kind of stupid questions .verysuave said:
I dont know why they have to analyze so much . It should be natural process .
And one thing to remember :
OVER ANALYZING FUCKS UP YOUR GAME
You can't make a statement like that, it has to be backed up. That's like saying "ARE HOMELESS DESPERATE FOR MONEY?" or "ARE DOCTORS NOT RICH?"verysuave said:
Over analyzers, like any other specific group, have their own issues that they cannot help. It may mess up their game, but you can't tell them don't do it, just like you can't tell a porn addict to stop watching porn or a smoker to quit. Over analyzers tend to be high strung, obsessive compulsive people who need help, and generally, these people don't do the best with women.
Just like Doctors do the best with women.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DonJuan11 said:
I NEVER SAID PEOPLE SHOULD NOT TO EFFING DO IT. Where in my sentence did I say that??? I was JUST MAKING A STATEMENT
OVER ANALYZING Like,
OMG, she looked at tme or
"she smiled at me, does she like me???"
"she sat next to me, does she like me?
"always walks pass me, does she like me??
"she said hi to me, does she like me?
So, does that mean, EVERY freakin women who walked pass you, smiled at you, sat next to you, talked to you, ate lunch with you, touched you wants to f@ck you?
If these were true, then the word "FLAKE" would never have existed