"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Do you still OVER ANALYZE thins with women?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Igetit!
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Likewise,if things went downhill,and I know what caused it to turn out bad,then I can avoid those things on purpose.
I'm chaning my WHOLE mindset... I'm starting to realise that worrying over the uncontrollable... DAMN! BAd bad thing indeed. I'm going to analyse a little bit maybe, but living IN THE MOMENT.
There's a difference between analysing things ONCE, step out of yourself and watch yourself to tell yourself why are you nervous?! no reason! And ALWAYS being analysing things for no good reason.
from now on I'll take much more focus on the fun and living in the moment, and waste no time worrying about my ego and so. And then I'll be much more happier!
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Yea they are . A guy who gets laid alot would never come to a forum and ask " i just called her but she didnt answer what to do ?? " or these kind of stupid questions .verysuave said:
I dont know why they have to analyze so much . It should be natural process .
And one thing to remember :
OVER ANALYZING FUCKS UP YOUR GAME
You can't make a statement like that, it has to be backed up. That's like saying "ARE HOMELESS DESPERATE FOR MONEY?" or "ARE DOCTORS NOT RICH?"verysuave said:
Over analyzers, like any other specific group, have their own issues that they cannot help. It may mess up their game, but you can't tell them don't do it, just like you can't tell a porn addict to stop watching porn or a smoker to quit. Over analyzers tend to be high strung, obsessive compulsive people who need help, and generally, these people don't do the best with women.
Just like Doctors do the best with women.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DonJuan11 said:
I NEVER SAID PEOPLE SHOULD NOT TO EFFING DO IT. Where in my sentence did I say that??? I was JUST MAKING A STATEMENT
OVER ANALYZING Like,
OMG, she looked at tme or
"she smiled at me, does she like me???"
"she sat next to me, does she like me?
"always walks pass me, does she like me??
"she said hi to me, does she like me?
So, does that mean, EVERY freakin women who walked pass you, smiled at you, sat next to you, talked to you, ate lunch with you, touched you wants to f@ck you?
If these were true, then the word "FLAKE" would never have existed