"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Do you still OVER ANALYZE thins with women?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Igetit!
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Likewise,if things went downhill,and I know what caused it to turn out bad,then I can avoid those things on purpose.
I'm chaning my WHOLE mindset... I'm starting to realise that worrying over the uncontrollable... DAMN! BAd bad thing indeed. I'm going to analyse a little bit maybe, but living IN THE MOMENT.
There's a difference between analysing things ONCE, step out of yourself and watch yourself to tell yourself why are you nervous?! no reason! And ALWAYS being analysing things for no good reason.
from now on I'll take much more focus on the fun and living in the moment, and waste no time worrying about my ego and so. And then I'll be much more happier!
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Yea they are . A guy who gets laid alot would never come to a forum and ask " i just called her but she didnt answer what to do ?? " or these kind of stupid questions .verysuave said:
I dont know why they have to analyze so much . It should be natural process .
And one thing to remember :
OVER ANALYZING FUCKS UP YOUR GAME
You can't make a statement like that, it has to be backed up. That's like saying "ARE HOMELESS DESPERATE FOR MONEY?" or "ARE DOCTORS NOT RICH?"verysuave said:
Over analyzers, like any other specific group, have their own issues that they cannot help. It may mess up their game, but you can't tell them don't do it, just like you can't tell a porn addict to stop watching porn or a smoker to quit. Over analyzers tend to be high strung, obsessive compulsive people who need help, and generally, these people don't do the best with women.
Just like Doctors do the best with women.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DonJuan11 said:
I NEVER SAID PEOPLE SHOULD NOT TO EFFING DO IT. Where in my sentence did I say that??? I was JUST MAKING A STATEMENT
OVER ANALYZING Like,
OMG, she looked at tme or
"she smiled at me, does she like me???"
"she sat next to me, does she like me?
"always walks pass me, does she like me??
"she said hi to me, does she like me?
So, does that mean, EVERY freakin women who walked pass you, smiled at you, sat next to you, talked to you, ate lunch with you, touched you wants to f@ck you?
If these were true, then the word "FLAKE" would never have existed