"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Do you still OVER ANALYZE thins with women?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Igetit!
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Likewise,if things went downhill,and I know what caused it to turn out bad,then I can avoid those things on purpose.
I'm chaning my WHOLE mindset... I'm starting to realise that worrying over the uncontrollable... DAMN! BAd bad thing indeed. I'm going to analyse a little bit maybe, but living IN THE MOMENT.
There's a difference between analysing things ONCE, step out of yourself and watch yourself to tell yourself why are you nervous?! no reason! And ALWAYS being analysing things for no good reason.
from now on I'll take much more focus on the fun and living in the moment, and waste no time worrying about my ego and so. And then I'll be much more happier!
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Yea they are . A guy who gets laid alot would never come to a forum and ask " i just called her but she didnt answer what to do ?? " or these kind of stupid questions .verysuave said:
I dont know why they have to analyze so much . It should be natural process .
And one thing to remember :
OVER ANALYZING FUCKS UP YOUR GAME
You can't make a statement like that, it has to be backed up. That's like saying "ARE HOMELESS DESPERATE FOR MONEY?" or "ARE DOCTORS NOT RICH?"verysuave said:
Over analyzers, like any other specific group, have their own issues that they cannot help. It may mess up their game, but you can't tell them don't do it, just like you can't tell a porn addict to stop watching porn or a smoker to quit. Over analyzers tend to be high strung, obsessive compulsive people who need help, and generally, these people don't do the best with women.
Just like Doctors do the best with women.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DonJuan11 said:
I NEVER SAID PEOPLE SHOULD NOT TO EFFING DO IT. Where in my sentence did I say that??? I was JUST MAKING A STATEMENT
OVER ANALYZING Like,
OMG, she looked at tme or
"she smiled at me, does she like me???"
"she sat next to me, does she like me?
"always walks pass me, does she like me??
"she said hi to me, does she like me?
So, does that mean, EVERY freakin women who walked pass you, smiled at you, sat next to you, talked to you, ate lunch with you, touched you wants to f@ck you?
If these were true, then the word "FLAKE" would never have existed