"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Do you lift for yourself.

Is it for you? or is ' for you' simply a benefit

  • I lift only for myself

    Votes: 13 54.2%

  • I lift to look better for others, oh ya and for myself

    Votes: 10 41.7%

  • I dont lift but i follow a healthy lifestyle

    Votes: 1 4.2%
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Do you lift only for yourself, when you think of motivation to lift, do you think of how great you will look and feel, how strong you will get.

or do you think if i lift im gonna look great for the ladies, ill be strong to fight off guys to get the ladies, oh ya and ill look and feel great for myself too.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
Do you lift only for yourself, when you think of motivation to lift, do you think of how great you will look and feel, how strong you will get.

or do you think if i lift im gonna look great for the ladies, ill be strong to fight off guys to get the ladies, oh ya and ill look and feel great for myself too.
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but doing it to look great for the ladys and being able to fight(less chance of losing) is classed as doing it for your self,
as those goals will only beter your life

get what you mean tho
 
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Re: Re: Do you lift for yourself.

Originally posted by john_x
but doing it to look great for the ladys and being able to fight(less chance of losing) is classed as doing it for your self,
as those goals will only beter your life

get what you mean tho
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thats the outcome, not the goal.
knowwhatimean?
 
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Originally posted by MetalFortress
oh my god

32 posts a day

are you going for a guinness record???
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if getting as many people informed on a small ass board within even smaller of a sub-section is a guiness record, then yes.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I lift for myself

I lift for sports and self defence purposes.

The fact that girls appreciate the physique is just a nice bonus.

Girls appreciate me a lot more for my sense of humor and charm much more than my physical aspects.

My looks just help me get my foot in the door.
 
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I lift for health, looks, and strength for sports. I refuse to ever be a fat ass.. i'm 25 now and my metabolism only goes down from here.

My gf commented the other day that she noticed that my upper chest got bigger :).. she makes fun of my protein consumption and says i'm gonna get mercury poison from the amt. of tuna i down though.

That's motivation.. other people see results even though i really don't except for the actual weight i'm lifting increasing.

Oh, and i seem to be able to hit a softball further than i used to... that might be because i'm getting the timing down better though (slow pitch).
 
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Originally posted by mrRuckus
I lift for health, looks, and strength for sports. I refuse to ever be a fat ass.. i'm 25 now and my metabolism only goes down from here.

My gf commented the other day that she noticed that my upper chest got bigger :).. she makes fun of my protein consumption and says i'm gonna get mercury poison from the amt. of tuna i down though.

That's motivation.. other people see results even though i really don't except for the actual weight i'm lifting increasing.

Oh, and i seem to be able to hit a softball further than i used to... that might be because i'm getting the timing down better though (slow pitch).
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very good stuff.
 
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I dont care about the ladies. Yes I look good. Yes, I like the way they look at me. No, I'm not going to show off my muscles. I lift strong to be strong.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by HalfAddict
I lift for myself and myself only..

I wanna fight be in MMA Boxing kick boxing Vale tudo I don't care.

So I have to train like an animal =P
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indeed
good stuff.
 
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