"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do you lift for yourself.

Is it for you? or is ' for you' simply a benefit

  • I lift only for myself

    Votes: 13 54.2%
  • I lift to look better for others, oh ya and for myself

    Votes: 10 41.7%
  • I dont lift but i follow a healthy lifestyle

    Votes: 1 4.2%

  • Total voters
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RaWBLooD

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Do you lift only for yourself, when you think of motivation to lift, do you think of how great you will look and feel, how strong you will get.

or do you think if i lift im gonna look great for the ladies, ill be strong to fight off guys to get the ladies, oh ya and ill look and feel great for myself too.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
Do you lift only for yourself, when you think of motivation to lift, do you think of how great you will look and feel, how strong you will get.

or do you think if i lift im gonna look great for the ladies, ill be strong to fight off guys to get the ladies, oh ya and ill look and feel great for myself too.
but doing it to look great for the ladys and being able to fight(less chance of losing) is classed as doing it for your self,
as those goals will only beter your life

get what you mean tho
 

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Re: Re: Do you lift for yourself.

Originally posted by john_x
but doing it to look great for the ladys and being able to fight(less chance of losing) is classed as doing it for your self,
as those goals will only beter your life

get what you mean tho
thats the outcome, not the goal.
knowwhatimean?
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
oh my god

32 posts a day

are you going for a guinness record???
if getting as many people informed on a small ass board within even smaller of a sub-section is a guiness record, then yes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I lift for myself

I lift for sports and self defence purposes.

The fact that girls appreciate the physique is just a nice bonus.

Girls appreciate me a lot more for my sense of humor and charm much more than my physical aspects.

My looks just help me get my foot in the door.
 

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I lift for health, looks, and strength for sports. I refuse to ever be a fat ass.. i'm 25 now and my metabolism only goes down from here.

My gf commented the other day that she noticed that my upper chest got bigger :).. she makes fun of my protein consumption and says i'm gonna get mercury poison from the amt. of tuna i down though.

That's motivation.. other people see results even though i really don't except for the actual weight i'm lifting increasing.

Oh, and i seem to be able to hit a softball further than i used to... that might be because i'm getting the timing down better though (slow pitch).
 

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Originally posted by mrRuckus
I lift for health, looks, and strength for sports. I refuse to ever be a fat ass.. i'm 25 now and my metabolism only goes down from here.

My gf commented the other day that she noticed that my upper chest got bigger :).. she makes fun of my protein consumption and says i'm gonna get mercury poison from the amt. of tuna i down though.

That's motivation.. other people see results even though i really don't except for the actual weight i'm lifting increasing.

Oh, and i seem to be able to hit a softball further than i used to... that might be because i'm getting the timing down better though (slow pitch).
very good stuff.
 
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I dont care about the ladies. Yes I look good. Yes, I like the way they look at me. No, I'm not going to show off my muscles. I lift strong to be strong.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by HalfAddict
I lift for myself and myself only..

I wanna fight be in MMA Boxing kick boxing Vale tudo I don't care.

So I have to train like an animal =P
indeed
good stuff.
 
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