Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do you lift for yourself.

Is it for you? or is ' for you' simply a benefit

  • I lift only for myself

    Votes: 13 54.2%
  • I lift to look better for others, oh ya and for myself

    Votes: 10 41.7%
  • I dont lift but i follow a healthy lifestyle

    Votes: 1 4.2%

  • Total voters
    24

RaWBLooD

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Do you lift only for yourself, when you think of motivation to lift, do you think of how great you will look and feel, how strong you will get.

or do you think if i lift im gonna look great for the ladies, ill be strong to fight off guys to get the ladies, oh ya and ill look and feel great for myself too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
Do you lift only for yourself, when you think of motivation to lift, do you think of how great you will look and feel, how strong you will get.

or do you think if i lift im gonna look great for the ladies, ill be strong to fight off guys to get the ladies, oh ya and ill look and feel great for myself too.
but doing it to look great for the ladys and being able to fight(less chance of losing) is classed as doing it for your self,
as those goals will only beter your life

get what you mean tho
 

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Re: Re: Do you lift for yourself.

Originally posted by john_x
but doing it to look great for the ladys and being able to fight(less chance of losing) is classed as doing it for your self,
as those goals will only beter your life

get what you mean tho
thats the outcome, not the goal.
knowwhatimean?
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
oh my god

32 posts a day

are you going for a guinness record???
if getting as many people informed on a small ass board within even smaller of a sub-section is a guiness record, then yes.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I lift for myself

I lift for sports and self defence purposes.

The fact that girls appreciate the physique is just a nice bonus.

Girls appreciate me a lot more for my sense of humor and charm much more than my physical aspects.

My looks just help me get my foot in the door.
 

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I lift for health, looks, and strength for sports. I refuse to ever be a fat ass.. i'm 25 now and my metabolism only goes down from here.

My gf commented the other day that she noticed that my upper chest got bigger :).. she makes fun of my protein consumption and says i'm gonna get mercury poison from the amt. of tuna i down though.

That's motivation.. other people see results even though i really don't except for the actual weight i'm lifting increasing.

Oh, and i seem to be able to hit a softball further than i used to... that might be because i'm getting the timing down better though (slow pitch).
 

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Originally posted by mrRuckus
I lift for health, looks, and strength for sports. I refuse to ever be a fat ass.. i'm 25 now and my metabolism only goes down from here.

My gf commented the other day that she noticed that my upper chest got bigger :).. she makes fun of my protein consumption and says i'm gonna get mercury poison from the amt. of tuna i down though.

That's motivation.. other people see results even though i really don't except for the actual weight i'm lifting increasing.

Oh, and i seem to be able to hit a softball further than i used to... that might be because i'm getting the timing down better though (slow pitch).
very good stuff.
 
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I dont care about the ladies. Yes I look good. Yes, I like the way they look at me. No, I'm not going to show off my muscles. I lift strong to be strong.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by HalfAddict
I lift for myself and myself only..

I wanna fight be in MMA Boxing kick boxing Vale tudo I don't care.

So I have to train like an animal =P
indeed
good stuff.
 
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